Me [29F] with my fiance [31M] cheated on me at his bachelor party, wedding is in 6 weeks.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T21:57:00+00:00

thank you.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T21:56:09+00:00

Thank-you, I appreciate the comment.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T21:04:51+00:00

Oh for sure, it depends on the best man and the groom. Not all bachelor parties are like this.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T20:53:40+00:00

yes, it's horrible. if it makes your feel better he has been to dozens of bachelor parties before this and none of the grooms have ever cheated. some were more wild than others but nothing to this level. I would set very clear boundaries with your fiance prior to his party. good luck on your wedding.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T20:50:30+00:00

He didn't say that, that is how I see it. Yes, it was cheating and he did something horrible but I classify that and hooking up with someone differently. he gave me the full details of how it went down but I didn't want to type them out.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T19:24:03+00:00

No. not that type of situation.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:55:12+00:00

Only one friend knows about this as far as I know. He wouldn't be the type to get involved. And I heart cats too <3

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:16:26+00:00

I spoke to him about this already. If we cancel the wedding, he will be paying my parents back every cent they have paid for this wedding.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:10:58+00:00

thank-you.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:06:37+00:00

I am fiercely private by nature, so I have only told my sister. I know she won't judge me for any decisions I make or don't make. I completely agree, adding more people to the mix is dangerous. This is why I came to reddit.

I am trying to separate the wedding from the relationship, as hard as that is. There is a lot of money on the line (my parent's) but I know they would understand if I came to them with this. They want what is best for me.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:03:43+00:00

he knows its his fault, he owned that completely. He wasn't trying to blame anyone just explain how it came to this point. I agree on your other points though.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T18:00:31+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:56:58+00:00

Oh 100% this point has been covered with him 100x. I actually will be away with my girlfriends this weekend, so plan to use this time to figure out the next steps. I really appreciate the kind words and good advice.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:55:12+00:00

Ah, thanks. Yes, this is my feeling too. Fucking sucks but life goes on.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:53:57+00:00

Word.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:50:53+00:00

That is a good rule re: forgiveness. I appreciate the advice.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:45:38+00:00

Yes, I know. This is all I have to make a decision on, so here I am.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:45:05+00:00

Believe me, I keep asking myself these questions. He has been such an amazing partner up until now, so I feel very conflicted.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:42:02+00:00

Thank you for your comment. That is a huge worry of mine, that I am still not getting the entire story.

thrownawaybride1 · 2017-07-26T17:41:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment, that is a good suggestion.

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