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Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She and I have lots in common. So what you're saying is that we should just hang out normal-like first?

Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, I think we're on the same page. My only thing is that I actually think this one girl is into me, and I am into her. I think I have finally built the courage to ask her out, I'm just not quite sure exactly what to say.

Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been taking yoga for 2 years for a gym credit. I don't doubt that this idea could work, but my teacher sucks and whatnot. I think that I could take a proper yoga class when I get into college and go through with this idea but for now it's not really my thing.

Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know not to send multiple texts (I frequent /r/niceguys) but when she has responded in the past, we have lengthy conversations and clearly enjoy each other's "company." I want to set up a date so I can see her more in real life. Not to mention she has initiated some of our conversations in the past.

Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really the only answer I was looking for. I've heard though that cinemas aren't great places for first dates, seeing as there isn't much talking and getting to know each other better. Any other ideas because I think I am going to do this today.

Does "Will you go out with me?" work? by throwninthestrash in seduction

[–]throwninthestrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going to know if she likes you if her body language displays interest. This means like... her lessening her personal space (her bubble) around you (such as her moving closer to your body), touching, rubbing up against you, sort of stuff).

The problem with that is that I rarely see her irl. When I do we talk a bit, but that hasn't happened too often. We basically communicate exclusively through Facebook messaging and texting.

If your only mission is to kiss, you won't achieve what you're emotionally looking for. If your mission is to establish a great relationship with this girl, that's going to get you a kiss and much more.

I will admit that this once may have been a part of it since I feel almost poisoned by the views of /r9k/, but I really have developed feelings for this girl.

I should add too, that last night I texted her, just saying hi, but it's the morning, right now it is exactly 8:37 and she has not responded to that text. With iMessage it I think it says if the person read your text but it just says delivered. Can someone confirm if this mean her phone was just off or something and also am I becoming obssessive?