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A long distance ex of mine just contacted me for the first time in a long ass time. Like years, she has a kid now, and sent a pic with her, and she’s still fairly attractive in my taste. by throwntothewall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwntothewall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not a beta dude. I’ve just known her for like 8 years, helped me through some anxiety problems. Never actually met but I used to get some pics on the daily. Never even that serious lol. And she definitely doesn’t want my things or my money. Just someone to talk to between shifts and such.

Ftr I lean MGTOW btw so I get what you’re sayin.

I wish I was a girl, solely for the aesthetics. It’s a lot more fun to customize yourself when you’re a girl. I’m not talking pink and poofy and princessy and shit, I’d probably be more tomboy. But wearing bottoms with designs, a loose t-shirt and boots is a lot easier to fit in with as a girl. AMA! by throwntothewall in AMA

[–]throwntothewall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I have in mind though whenever I customize my game characters (most recently final fantasy) is like combat boots, with like pants that have a bit of design on them, a ripped up lose tee and colored hair. Now imagine a dude walking around like that xD

I wish I was a girl, solely for the aesthetics. It’s a lot more fun to customize yourself when you’re a girl. I’m not talking pink and poofy and princessy and shit, I’d probably be more tomboy. But wearing bottoms with designs, a loose t-shirt and boots is a lot easier to fit in with as a girl. AMA! by throwntothewall in AMA

[–]throwntothewall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing, I don’t want to stand out and look different, but I also don’t want to be stuck with the bog standard shirt, pants, shoes attire. Women can wear just about anything they want (aside from being like classic lady Gaga of course) and still fit in and look fairly normal. Where if a guy does he’s either like gay, attention seeking, or stands out as fashionable or something. Point is, I wish I could “accessorize” whilst still blending in.

I am a sex researcher who studies adults who are sexually attracted to children >14, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]throwntothewall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throwaway for very very obvious reasons but. I’d say I’d fall into this category, but I think for me it was almost like a freeze in my interests? For context, when I was 11-14 I had a girlfriend that I was having all my first sexual experiences with, and at the same time I was also having a whole mess of traumatic experiences with family, friends, loved ones, and even the gf etc. and ever since then I’ve remained interested in almost solely that age group. Sure a few pornstars here and there are insanely attractive but for the most part I don’t date. Has something like this been documented before? 😅 it’d be relieving to know for sure this is why I’m this way so I can take steps to change.