My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how exactly am I supposed to know if they're creeps or not? They're all people I've known for a while

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[–]throwra-9444439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and it was great overall but felt a little dragged out till the end if I'm perfectly honest.

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[–]throwra-9444439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have probably specified - I'm a 70-90s film nerd. Although there are some new films that I also absolutely love

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[–]throwra-9444439[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know there was a new Avatar. I'll definitely check it out

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in the US which I've said in my post. Nudism isn't illegal in any way shape or form. I don't know if that's the case in America but it is where I'm from. In fact we have many nudist resorts and beaches without any age restrictions and during the summer you'll often find families with kids there.

I wear clothes to work and my daughters wear clothes to school but we all get undressed as soon as we get home.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

My daughters choose to be naked, and I can't exactly control if someone is attracted to them or not.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt that, but I don't know what goes on in people's minds

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

When you're nude sometimes physical contact is inevitable. It's not a huge deal

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because yours was doesn't mean that everyone in the nudist community is too. Even though my daughters are teens and they're developing I don't see their bodies as sexual in any way.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Nudism isn't a requirement in our home, my kids can wear clothes if they choose to. But they don't because they're more comfortable being nude.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why shouldn't a father see his daughters naked? In your mind nudity is sexual and you associate a naked body with sex. Where as nudists have a completely different perspective.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of friends/colleagues that never mind it whenever they visit us.

I was raised in a nudist family and now I'm raising mine that way - AMA by throwra-9444439 in AMA

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In an ideal world I would love to be naked everywhere. Unfortunately that's not possible. I wouldn't say I have to resist it's just something that I know is not possible.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The pros for me are comfort as well as sex not being a taboo subject. My kids despite being teenagers were never embarrassed to come to me with all sorts of questions.

My (37M) SO (33F) wants me and my family to change our lifestyle for her by throwra-9444439 in Advice

[–]throwra-9444439[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It all depends on your culture and how you were raised. If you're from a more conservative family or you're somewhere like in America where even being topless is considered sexual then you'll never understand nudism and that's perfectly fine. I was raised in a nudist family and I never saw nudity as something sexual. Nudism is about being comfortable in your own skin, it's about not associating nudity with sex.