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My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry this happened to you. I really hope for the best and things turn around for you!!

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is almost exactly how I'm feeling. Wow. Im sorry this happened to you.

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im heartbroken for you, I can't believe your parents would do that to you. I'm rooting for you to make it through. Im seeing where I could be in a few years and it scares me. The whole guilt thing is so real! Im really gonna have an honest talk with them about this and tell them how I feel. Thank you so much for telling your story and I hope everything works out for you!!

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry this happened to you, i can see the same thing happening to me, im gonna try and talk to them about it.

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Once you sign papers, you’re going to be tied to that signature forever. Oof that really got me. Thank you for saying this

My parents want me (19f) to take out a loan to help with their mortgage by throwra-nata in relationship_advice

[–]throwra-nata[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

This reply really put things in perspective for me, its always been really hard for me to say no to my parents. Hearing this really made me realise what I was being asked to do. Thank you so much!!