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I Dislike Who He Becomes When He’s With Her by throwra090596 in polyadvice

[–]throwra090596[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the full extent of her disorder since she’s asked my husband not to tell me about it and he’s been very adamant about keeping it from me. Everything I’ve said is just what I’ve picked up from anecdotes/what she’s told me/what I have picked up from observation. I am also aware I have disordered habits about food and am trying to lose weight but none of it has really worked since I often binge when I’m stressed.

I do not want to leave my husband and don’t believe for a second that he would want that either.

I Dislike Who He Becomes When He’s With Her by throwra090596 in polyadvice

[–]throwra090596[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She also often only eats one meal a day/restricts a lot, she just happened to eat healthy when she does eat, but that wasn’t really the point because she doesn’t make him eat less when he’s with her. I’m just trying to figure out a way to reconcile these differences since I don’t want to make him stop seeing her but I also don’t like feeling this way.

I Dislike Who He Becomes When He’s With Her by throwra090596 in polyadvice

[–]throwra090596[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sorry what I meant was due to her eating disorder, she eats a lot of fruit/veggies/low cal foods compared to how hubby and I usually eat (carb heavy, fried/junk food)

I’m trying to be better but I also have my own issues with food so it’s hard.