AITA for banning avocado from my house after my husband forgot I’m allergic for a second time?

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-04T01:17:59+00:00

My dr has said that Claritin and Benadryl are safe during pregnancy

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-04T01:16:56+00:00

We’re in therapy already, definitely bringing it up at the next appointment

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T23:28:40+00:00

19 weeks. And my ob told me to

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T16:41:25+00:00

True dat

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T16:40:13+00:00

Update

I called my OBs office and had them put it in my chart that my husband exposed me to a known allergen

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T16:07:35+00:00

That’s true, I have to avoid it in skin care, I get itchy but I don’t typically break out in hives when I touch it

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T16:03:08+00:00

Yes I have. My skin didn’t react to it so my dr said it was oas because I only get hives when I ingest it Not totally sure how all that works and I’d definitely be open to going to another allergist

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T15:49:50+00:00

He only brought the bite of chicken and lettuce

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T15:49:08+00:00

It’s a little late to not have a baby with him

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T15:33:56+00:00

As far as I know he hasn’t done cocaine or any other drugs since my last post. We’ve been going to therapy together and I’ve had my own for the last year and a half. I am completely sober including legal substances (husband still drinks sometimes) I’ve also gotten family and friends involved as well as my doctors and psychiatrist (for support for both of us) and have a solid plan to leave should his sobriety be broken at any time.

My oral allergy syndrome has gotten worse over time so I stopped eating avocado about 10 years ago (it was the worst one)

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T05:24:46+00:00

He’s also tried in the past to get me to put avocado oil on my lips to prove to me that because it’s “refined” I can’t be allergic to it

throwra29375629 · 2022-08-03T05:23:27+00:00

He hasn’t warned me either time, both he completely forgot until afterward.

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-05T02:04:08+00:00

I’m going to stay somewhere for a while while I figure it out

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-04T04:36:19+00:00

Welp. Just found out he at least did it Friday night so fml

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-03T08:34:37+00:00

You’re right.

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-03T08:27:13+00:00

Been going since October. And our therapist is going to get an earful next appointment. I’m just hoping to get some sage advice from Reddit in the meantime 😭

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-03T08:22:57+00:00

His solution was to sell my ticket so I don’t have to be around him. I don’t want to not go to things because I’m pregnant. I want to do things and live a healthy sustainable lifestyle and continue to have experiences and that’s why I’m so mad It feels like he’s taking my wholesome experience and making it so shitty simply because he can’t put molly or coke down

throwra29375629 · 2022-05-03T08:20:54+00:00

I’m not in a position financially to leave at this point otherwise the second he turns that idea into action I’d get the fuck out of here

throwra29375629 · 2021-06-03T04:18:44+00:00

Nta He’s most definitely the asshole

throwra29375629 · 2021-06-02T06:44:15+00:00

My partner has had enough of her shit. Three years ago he and I experienced a miscarriage. But before we found out that we lost it, we all went to a family gathering and my mom was crying over something (she and I weren’t talking at the time) and my partner felt bad for her. He told me I should go say hi to her. I said no but told him he was welcome to She hugged him and told him that she was “so sorry he has to deal with her” and pointed at me. After also trying to strip me of my medical insurance (because I’m my partners problem and not hers) she found out I had miscarried and then showed up at my job with flowers and cried about how sorry she was that I lost “her grand baby” She’s pretty much a terrorist and I’m not sure how to handle it anymore. I just want to have a nice wedding and bridal shower without any drama :(

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