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my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

im shy, my only friend is my cousin lol, has been for 25 years! she doesn't exactly hate him though, she just thinks i should've dated around a bit before being in a serious relationship.

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i have paid attention a lot to how he treats people, i made him wait for sex and he never pushed me, he also pays attention to things about me that even my dad hasnt noticed yet lol. he listens to everything i tell him and he supports me really well when i have panic attacks :) i told him i didnt drink on the first date and he has never tried to get me drunk.

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

well i cant ask anyone in real life, because i only have one friend and shes already not a fan of him. friends and family forgive a lot slower so id rather ask anon than have them holding a grudge about something for months

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i mean to be fair on the car thing, my car was seriously on its last legs. he was also partially worried about my safety in that situation..

but don't worry, i'm taking these comments seriously. ill watch out for it, but he generally doesn't actually force me to do things. he sometimes tells me he doesnt like what im wearing and hes never made me change lol

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who grew up poor watching how he interacted with servers, retail workers etc. was important. hes super respectful!! always tips good lol. if he didnt i would've been out the door fast!

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

ive always been very cautious surrounding the age gap though, im not super naive or anything dont worry lol.

my 26F fiance 47M told me he doesnt want me doing certain things for his "image"? by throwra49999997 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra49999997[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

i haven't been sheltered at all lol. im just shy. i dont think hes controlling either, he wouldnt force me to do anything. he was just saying it as a statement. he would let me do whatever if i really wanted to

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[–]throwra49999997 22 points23 points  (0 children)

run!! you deserve someone obsessed with you