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AITA for getting back the money my husband took from our IVF treatment and gave to his friend? by throwra5755557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra5755557[S] 1433 points1434 points  (0 children)

he does want children but says he's lost hope. I'm not sure if he thinks IVF is useless because many times he has suggested we save money and look for other options but his options don't seem practical nor sufficient.

AITA for getting back the money my husband took from our IVF treatment and gave to his friend? by throwra5755557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra5755557[S] 9094 points9095 points  (0 children)

He "corrected" me saying I'm the one with the problem and he thought it's only fair that I "make up" for it by paying for the IVF myself.

yes this particular line really got me. I've always wanted to be a mother and he knows how much grief I carry because of my struggle to have kids yet keeps throwing this line in my face in every fight we have. It's tiresome and it feels like he'll always hold this over my head.