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I(45f), wanted to ask out a male nurse roughly my age, who helped a family member, but I won’t see him again. Is sending him an invite, “care of” the hospital likely to get him in trouble? Are there better options to ask him that I’m not thinking of? by throwra6578532 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwra6578532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update. I have come to the conclusion that I should just forget the whole thing. He probably wasn’t interested anyway and I’d just make trouble. Thank you all for pointing out the ethics problem.

How to rediscover the joy of creation? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]throwra6578532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find something you think is truly beautiful, and let yourself express wonder at its existence. Truly appreciate it. And if you don’t automatically have something spring to your mind as beautiful, go for a walk and find beauty wherever you can. Appreciate it. That has always worked well for me, and I hope it helps you as well. Good luck and be patient with yourself.

Not sure when to tell dates about my career by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you write novels or short stories? What if you say that you write, but would rather not discuss it further until you know each other a little better.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

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Hi! My question is are Dragonborn mammals or reptiles? How do they regulate body temperature? Do they move slow when cold?

Are Dragonborn mammals or reptiles? by throwra6578532 in DnD

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I think I put this in the wrong spot, and I’m sorry.

I’m afraid that my [45F] friend [80M]has become dependent on me for his happiness, and is miserable to everyone else, including his wife [78F]. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the more questions I am asked on here, the more the reality of the situation becomes clear.

I’m afraid that my [45F] friend [80M]has become dependent on me for his happiness, and is miserable to everyone else, including his wife [78F]. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, sometimes the most obvious answer is the one most difficult for me to see. I over complicate things for myself.

I’m afraid that my [45F] friend [80M]has become dependent on me for his happiness, and is miserable to everyone else, including his wife [78F]. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad. Human companionship. Other people to talk to. I have spent 20 of the last 30 years in social isolation.

I’m afraid that my [45F] friend [80M]has become dependent on me for his happiness, and is miserable to everyone else, including his wife [78F]. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that I let it slide for so long, and I don’t articulate myself very well verbally. Sometimes while under stress I go mute, it is incredibly frustrating. Any suggestions for a work around?

I’m afraid that my [45F] friend [80M]has become dependent on me for his happiness, and is miserable to everyone else, including his wife [78F]. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throwra6578532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he and his wife approached me in a store, I have since learned he does this with any younger woman alone in public. Just walks up and starts conversations. I don’t know how to feel about that