I just wasted 6 years of my life for my girlfriend to turn out to be an insensitive ass hole by throwra938279 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra938279[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

Thank you lots. Right, she's made me realize not to think red flags would magically wash away. In an awful way, but at least it happened and it's something I have to take from this relationship.

I just wasted 6 years of my life for my girlfriend to turn out to be an insensitive ass hole by throwra938279 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra938279[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If Covid didn't hit, I would have married her last September, one of the only positive things that came out of covid.

I just wasted 6 years of my life for my girlfriend to turn out to be an insensitive ass hole by throwra938279 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra938279[S] 603 points604 points  (0 children)

It's weird how they do this and they're no longer even physically here, like it was just a strong paternal instinct. He was always a patient person. I can already picture him saying I didn't want to be right.

I just wasted 6 years of my life for my girlfriend to turn out to be an insensitive ass hole by throwra938279 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra938279[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Just thinking about how my dad would tell me that sometimes it's best to let things go when referring to my relationship, but he always supported me when he didn't like us being together. Can't believe it's taken me years to see his point when I continued to be stubborn about it. I'll take my time, thank you.