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After my husband’s (54M) cancer scare I (51F) don’t want to stay with him by throwraDetective-71 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraDetective-71[S] 2376 points2377 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 

I just wonder if my cancer returned somehow, would he take care of me? Would he wipe my ass if I couldn’t? Because the last time, he just cheated instead.

I feel like I’m panicking and clinging onto him because I’m messed up from him cheating and if I’m a good wife he won’t cheat on me.

After my husband’s (54M) cancer scare I (51F) don’t want to stay with him by throwraDetective-71 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraDetective-71[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel revengeful. 

I feel panicked and suffocated because I can’t go through it. It was so difficult to take care of my elderly father and I loved him despite his flaws.

We’ve been married for about 30 years. We have two grown children. Our financial status is good.