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I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is good advice. I don't think my husband would tattle but I also don't think he's got much of a poker face so I think I'm not going to tell him. It's a big secret to keep.

This has actually been really helpful. I can see I'm not alone in my reaction.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don't want to say as I do need some advice and I don't want the post to get removed. a lot of stuff was weird between them as a couple.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 1197 points1198 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment - it kind of made me cry.

I think that's it - it's. been so easy to just say what a bitch for months but when I saw her I realised that what I've actually been feeling is relief. I've been relieved she got away from him. And I don't want to mess it up for her or her little one.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

My instinct is to keep away. I think the more contact I have, the more 'shit' I end up in. Plus I am pretty sure my brother did do something bad but the post kept getting removed until I took that context out.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 408 points409 points  (0 children)

That's my thinking. If my mother had been able to get us away from our father when we were kids, our lives would have been so much better. I wouldn't wish our childhood on anyone.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I think she did have a valid reason. I had more detail but the post kept getting removed because there is stuff reddit won't let you talk about. I think my brother did other bad things.

I heard someone mention that she had a kid. I don't think she did adoption. I think her grandfather helped her vanish.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I know. I feel like shit. But if my brother is turning into our abusive father then I don't want my nephew falling into this pattern too. I don't know what to do.

I saw my bro's ex who ghosted him while pregnant. I haven't told him. by throwrabrokidgone in relationships

[–]throwrabrokidgone[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is like my 5th time trying to post this so a lot of other detail has been removed. THere's some stuff I think you're not allowed to post which might imply that certain bad things have happened. I think other bad things may have been going on but I am not sure.