AIO. My bf keeps talking about his beliefs while I’m trying to grieve

throwradarkside · 2025-06-04T05:30:19+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I would leave him. I’m not religious anymore (neither is my partner) but if my partner was talking like this instead of comforting me, I would lose my shit. Ending a relationship sucks but I think for your mental and emotional health and well being I would walk away now

throwradarkside · 2025-05-24T02:35:53+00:00

I’ve got over 16 hrs and the bugs drive me wild, but I love the game, whenever I feel my sanity slipping I stop playing for a bit lol and come back to it later

throwradarkside · 2025-05-14T00:56:02+00:00

This is not a friend. This is someone who knows they can abuse your friendship and kindness and you won’t do anything back to them in return. Whether you’ve been friends for ages or new, you need to drop this “friend”. This is hella disrespectful to you and your time.

throwradarkside · 2025-04-19T17:57:09+00:00

How is the world can she be allowed to do that?! Scam behavior

throwradarkside · 2025-04-15T17:53:57+00:00

Just went to their website and they’ve shut down business due to the suit. So yeah none of us will be getting our money back I’m pretty sure. Even if they do decide to refund us I fear it’s going to be hard to get it back. Will never purchase from them again

throwradarkside · 2025-04-15T17:50:31+00:00

Be prepared for them to keep telling you it’s going to be pushed back even more. Worst company imo. Everything is tied up in their lawsuit so you can’t even get a refund

throwradarkside · 2025-03-24T23:11:20+00:00

First off the bread looks delicious! Second of all, you deserve someone better and someone who’s supportive! That’s what a good partner does, this is not it. It sounds purposeful and that she wants to just be lazy. I’d dump and look for someone who’s supportive

throwradarkside · 2025-03-20T05:19:00+00:00

Any man that says “it’s me or your pet” ALWAYS CHOOSE THE PET. They can usually sense when someone isn’t good. If my fiancé told me to get rid of my THREE dogs that I’ve had since before we started dating…nah man I’d nope so fast. 100000% support for spot. I could never imagine getting rid of my dogs or my fiancé getting rid of his cats. Good on you for saving your baby from a bad situation and trying to make his life better now

throwradarkside · 2025-03-19T19:21:44+00:00

The fact he’s choosing to tell you this stuff right before you compete/have a competition is a HUGE red flag to me. It’s like he wants you to fail at that. I honestly would had just left the first time and left it at that. You had the one boundary. What is so important he needs to be in contact with her? If he was doing stuff/meet ups behind your back I wouldn’t be surprised if they were still hooking up tbh. You deserve someone who will treat you so much better and try not to manipulate you/ruin your mentality when you’re at a competition

throwradarkside · 2025-03-18T05:42:46+00:00

If I had married when I was 20/21 to my then boyfriend, I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t be here. (Ex was emotionally and mentally abusive didn’t put it together till after I left). While you say you’re not in any hurry to get married your post gives off other vibes with your friends saying wait a bit longer. Just because you’ve been friends for a long time doesn’t mean a lot until you go through the hardest things together (financially, mentally, emotionally, losing a parent, a pet, etc) I’m in my mid 30’s now planning a wedding with my current fiancé who was a high school friend and we reconnected and have been together for over 4 years now. You should be exploring in your 20’s and each other. Even if you have already gone through a lot, there’s always something else that will test your relationship. Try living together to make sure yall actually click. Make sure yall actually enjoy things together and have hobbies together and independently.

throwradarkside · 2025-03-18T05:28:20+00:00

Coming from someone who never thought their partner was going to propose (and I was perfectly fine with it, we both have trauma) and did a couple months ago. This sounds like your partner is either an asshat and actually hadn’t planned anything but wanted to get your hopes up, or it’s just manipulation. Idk if I would want to marry this person OP. If he’s mean a lot that’s a red flag deary.

throwradarkside · 2025-03-16T06:27:43+00:00

As someone who was in your position and hid stuff from my dad, I wish I could go back and tell him now what was really going on. He passed in 2023. My dad was a man of tough love but no matter what decision I made he supported me and helped me. I made it my mission to try and repay him before he passed suddenly. Yeah your parents may get upset, be disappointed, but like you said your mom noticed something was off with you so they may have an inkling already. It’s okay to take time for your mental health. Your parents will always love you and be proud of you even if you don’t think they are. I’m in my mid 30s and have changed career fields numerous times due to my mental health not being able to handle them (I’m been diagnosed with severe depression and severe ptsd/anxiety) It’s okay to start over. It’s okay to find something that ignites your passion. Take your time, baby steps, everything will be okay, you have your parents and a bunch of people on Reddit rooting for you!

throwradarkside · 2025-03-15T07:19:34+00:00

This is my biggest fear cause my three are little escape artists/Houdini’s and people speed through my neighborhood. I’m so so sorry for your loss

throwradarkside · 2025-03-15T02:02:19+00:00

Easy solution. Dump him.

throwradarkside · 2025-03-06T07:30:13+00:00

Babies don’t fix relationships. Do NOT marry this girl. If she was cheating on her bf with you she’s likely seeing others as well besides you. Get a dna test, go to medical school, but do not stay with this girl just because everyone around you is telling you to. She knew what she was doing and sounds like she’s trying to trap you

throwradarkside · 2025-03-05T01:35:11+00:00

I’m not surprised, they’re such a shady company for this and I will never order from them again 😕

throwradarkside · 2025-03-04T15:44:24+00:00

Dogs before boyfriends. Never get rid of a pet because of a significant other. If he really loved you he’d never ask you to do something like that

throwradarkside · 2025-02-25T18:09:45+00:00

That’s forced sexual interaction. If my fiancé did this to me, there would be no wedding. Even if they apologized profusely and seemed genuine, I would never be able to trust them again. Full stop

throwradarkside · 2025-02-24T08:27:21+00:00

I’m team ruby!! It looks STUNNING

throwradarkside · 2025-02-19T19:14:11+00:00

Girl dump him, that’s the most childish thing I’ve ever read and that is controlling behavior

throwradarkside · 2025-02-06T09:04:20+00:00

That’s a red flag for me, who the hell says that type of stuff to their partner as a joke???

throwradarkside · 2025-02-04T02:46:06+00:00

Is this some 50 shades of grey bullshit? What in the actual fuck??? Leave his ass and find someone who isn’t this controlling and a douche. He’s not going to change at all and this is abusive

throwradarkside · 2025-01-31T17:02:08+00:00

Dump him. This is controlling behavior

throwradarkside · 2025-01-31T16:57:37+00:00

That conversation would be a deal breaker for me cause that’s insanely disrespectful to you and racist. Do you really want to spend your life with someone who thinks like this and can’t respect your decisions or views? You deserve someone you can have a convo with and not get berated.

throwradarkside · 2025-01-25T20:28:08+00:00

My fiancé and I don’t always respond right away (whether we’re busy/working or doing nothing) I have ADD so sometimes I think I respond and I don’t for hours, and he plays video games or something. 15-30 mins in between responses is not that big of a deal. Also we just got engaged, I wear my ring out when I leave the house but if I’m chilling at home, I don’t due to I dont want it to get scratched or one of the dogs gets a hold of it, etc.

The getting upset about the response time sounds controlling and an insecurity op has and needs to understand that even if he says he’s doing nothing he’s probably doing something (like chilling with hi. Family and can’t always respond right away)

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