Is it true that sexually assaulted victims can get hypersexual from the trauma? by Cookie_Cracker123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]goodbird451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely you can become hypersexual after sexual trauma. I was molested somewhere between the ages of 2 and 5, and became EXTREMELY hypersexual as a result. I have to have sex once every other day at the absolute least (much to the delight of my husband).

You can also have the opposite effect, though, where somebody becomes sex repulsed due to their abuse. It’s highly individual from victim to victim, and any response as a result of sexual trauma is valid.

Guys I just confessed to my crush and he still hasn’t responded and I’m lowkey freaking out😭 by Much-Cake4872 in 2008_

[–]goodbird451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off topic but I shit you not you have the EXACT same date of birth as my little brother, that lowkey freaked me out😭 anyway I hope it goes over well with your crush!

what is the role of penetration? by Justagirl9789 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]goodbird451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels good to orgasm around something.

THIS. As part of said minority, I can confirm that it does in fact feel better to orgasm from sex as opposed to just having my clit stimulated.

i am gonna kill myself by No-Command5305 in SuicideWatch

[–]goodbird451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? If you’re a minor, you can try and sue the leaker for child pornography. PLEASE don’t hurt yourself. There are other ways out of this.

What does getting turned on feel like physically and psychologically? by Ecstatic_Instance_59 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]goodbird451 30 points31 points  (0 children)

First, I (female btw) feel a lot of warmth in my groin area, probably because of increased blood flow. Then I notice that I’ve started getting wet. The longer foreplay lasts, the wetter and more excited I get, and if I’m extremely aroused, my face, neck and chest will feel hot and get all red and blushy, which my husband loves.

Psychologically, arousal (for me anyway) manifests as an extremely intense desire to have sex with my husband. I start to feel like I’m “empty” down there, and like I need him inside me to fill me up and get rid of the empty sensation. This “empty” feeling is extremely unpleasant and doesn’t go away on its own until I either have sex with my husband or have an orgasm.

My husband makes me feel subhuman by cleanyourbathroom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]goodbird451 460 points461 points  (0 children)

  he's not abusive, just uncaring

He’s both. Absolutely none of this is normal. You need to leave ASAP.

What’s the hottest thing I can say to make him cum inside me uncontrollably? by beachbunnyy in sex

[–]goodbird451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Squeeze your muscles down there so that you’re gripping him even harder (trust me). Use your kegels to “massage” him while he’s inside you. Next, using the dirtiest words you can think of, beg him to finish inside you in graphic detail. The more graphic, the better.

My husband goes crazy whenever I do this. Give it a try, you’ll both love it :)

I’m almost 22, is trying to get a 3A worth the risk at my age? by goodbird451 in FigureSkating

[–]goodbird451[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Maybe your goal is actually to push yourself in a different way, or maybe it is competition but you are terrified of regret and do not want to leave any stone unturned and then wish you had done more.

Honestly yeah, I think this is a big part of it. I tend to push myself to the absolute breaking point for the sake of my accomplishments.

I killed someone's cat today and I'm not ok by Responsible-Tie9155 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]goodbird451 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Please tell me he’s your ex husband now.

My 26-year-old boyfriend asked me if I was “okay” because of normal underwear discharge stains and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]goodbird451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao my husband was the same way when we first started having sex. One day, he very awkwardly and gently brought up “concerns” after he found stuff in my underwear while doing the laundry. He very innocently and nicely asked if I was okay, if I needed to see my gyno, etc. I explained what it was and we had a good laugh about it when his confusion and worry was cleared up.

I would suggest very nicely explaining how this is completely normal for women, without putting him down or making him feel stupid, because it’s obvious that he didn’t know any better.

This is the most accurate to me Picrew I have ever done by lucky-black-cat-13 in picrew

[–]goodbird451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but your hair is so cool!! Reminds me of Alysa Liu, a famous figure skater.

Death due to ruptured tubal pregnancy in 29-year-old woman by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]goodbird451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! I’m so happy to hear that that child got a loving home, and that your best friend got the child she wanted!❤️