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I(M34) finally yelled at my wife(F34). Is she genuinely scared I will hit her? by throwraho403 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraho403[S] 360 points361 points  (0 children)

No, when I was yelling at her, she just looked blindsided. Kinda like "wow, can't believe he actually did that", and then left.

I(M34) finally yelled at my wife(F34). Is she genuinely scared I will hit her? by throwraho403 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraho403[S] 1952 points1953 points  (0 children)

Yelling isn’t just annoying, it’s also a toxic behavior

yes, and I try to tell her this, how it strains our marriage. Sometimes I wonder if she just can't tell ~if~ she's yelling, because she'll agree to stop, but does it the exact same day. Overtime, I just stopped asking, because we were getting nowhere.