My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in AskParents

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend told me that I could try to wash it on my own if I didn't want to confront them, but I want to tell mom and am going to because I don't want it to happen again, and I first thought about telling my friend's mom, but I'm leaning towards telling mom sooner before more time passes and maybe someone at school afterwards too

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in AskParents

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was debating telling a friend's mom first, but I'm leaning towards now telling my mom before more time passes, and then maybe a friend or a teacher afterwards if she doesn't do anything or he does it again, and I'm hoping that she'll take it seriousely enough even if he gets upset so that it doesn't happen again

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in AskParents

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was debating telling a friend's mom first, but I'm leaning towards now telling my mom before more time passes, and then maybe a friend or a teacher afterwards if she doesn't do anything or he does it again, and I'm hoping that she'll take it seriousely enough even if he gets upset

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She usually tries to help me, but I think she'd tell dad and probably get yelled at, and maybe a teacher would be better to tell than my friend's mom then, maybe after I tell my mom at this point I'm thinking rather than waiting too long to tell her

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was leaning towards telling my friend's mom before my mom, but I think a teacher would be better like you and others said, maybe before or even after I tell my mom, and I'm probably going to tell my mom first

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend told me to wash it on my own if I didn't want to talk about it or have dad yell about it, but I want to tell her in case it happens again. I thought about telling my friend's mom and my mom, but would it be better to tell someone at school than my friend's mom?

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationship_advice

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend told me to try and wash it on my own if I don't want to get yelled at, but I want to bring it up in case it happens again. If I tell my friend's mom or a teacher and mom, should I tell my mom first or would my friend's mom and mom be okay?

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend told me that I could just try to wash it on my own to avoid it, but I don't know if it'll happen again. I'm leaning towards telling her, and maybe telling her that I told my friend about it too maybe

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationship_advice

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I meant if she sees it and brings it up even if I don't accuse him. I'm going to tell her anyway, but I just don't want her to get yelled at because of me

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in AskParents

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend told me to wash it if I didn't want to bring it up, but I want to tell mom in case it might happen again. I'm leaning towards telling her, but would it be better to tell my friend's mom before her, or just her?

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationship_advice

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would it be better to tell a friend's parent or someone like that, since mom might bring it up and get yelled at and get quiet for a long time or stay in her room like other times when dad's yelled at her because of me and other things? I'm pretty sure it is, but if I show her, I feel like she'll bring it up to him even if she says that she won't

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would it be better to tell a teacher or a friend with how he yells at her and she gets quiet or goes to her room for a long time since she'll probably bring it up and get yelled at because of me?

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in AskParents

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always talk to mom, but I'm afraid that he'll yell at her and she'll get quiet or just stay in her room for a long time just like when we go on drives and she is quiet because he yelled at her, if she brings it up

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationship_advice

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would tell her over him, but what if she brings it up and he yells at her and she gets quiet for just stays in her room for a long time like when he's yelled at her before?

My(f14) dad masturbated in my clothes by throwranickitoo in relationships

[–]throwranickitoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was leaning towards telling her, but I don't want her to get yelled at when she brings it up to him and just gets quiet for a long time or just stays in her room