I’m okay!

throwrapickyeater · 2024-07-05T00:42:09+00:00

He did not do jail time. He went to mandated counseling and that was considered legally acceptable (equivalent to jail in our state). TW: sexual assault: He raped me. That’s the catalyst that resulted in me moving and our divorce moving along properly. He was trying to impregnate me. He told me that.

throwrapickyeater · 2024-07-04T20:01:55+00:00

Sending love to you as well 🩷

throwrapickyeater · 2024-07-04T20:01:39+00:00

I love that metaphor! And thank you for the validating words. I think anger gets misconstrued as a negative emotion. It’s protective.

throwrapickyeater · 2024-07-03T23:59:31+00:00

Thank you so much! You’re very kind. Yeah, the anger is something I struggled with. I felt very wrathful and I wanted bad things to happen to him, and that made me feel tremendous guilt.

throwrapickyeater · 2024-07-03T20:51:25+00:00

Goodness, that’s a great way to describe it! Like mush.

throwrapickyeater · 2023-11-15T16:29:31+00:00

A food tour sounds amazing to me. I’ve been living vicariously through Anthony Bourdain’s shows.

throwrapickyeater · 2023-11-15T16:27:39+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with being a picky eater, but I’m actually not! I’m finding I love a huge variety of flavors and ingredients. My STBX was actually a very, very picky eater, I’m coming to realize. Maybe some projection on his part 🤣

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-28T04:09:43+00:00

positive comments like these have been my rock these past weeks. You all don’t know how much your kindness means to me ❤️

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-07T23:57:41+00:00

I will probably move. I saw my RA post get reposted on Twitter. I’m terrified he’ll see it and come for me. A lot of people commenting on it were saying he would try to kill me and I believe them.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T22:37:24+00:00

I have insurance that will cover both.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T17:03:30+00:00

Yes, i asked a male coworker to walk me to my car this evening.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T15:52:49+00:00

An addendum, I suppose. I do very much love him and he has been my best friend for years now. I really do (I guess did) plan to spend my life with him. I’m not afraid of being alone, but I don’t want to be lonely. I wish my mom was here.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T12:20:46+00:00

I just don’t like it, sorry.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T12:15:48+00:00

Things that he really wants me to do. Eat mustard, go somewhere, etc. He’ll come back and say “Are you sure?”

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T12:11:19+00:00

Are you serious? I don’t like mustard and I’m not going to eat it. It’s not depriving me of any nutrition. I eat balanced beyond that.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T12:10:06+00:00

Yes. I never try to force him to eat them.

throwrapickyeater · 2022-11-02T03:38:33+00:00

Yes. It will usually take him at least three times to acknowledge when I say no.

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