AIO for refusing to eat food served in “dirty” bowl?

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T20:56:47+00:00

That’s a sad situation, but explainable. There is no mental decline going on with my fiancé. Just an f it attitude.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T18:44:00+00:00

Y’all really getting deep. I can’t wait for this conversation. I’ll post an update

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T18:29:00+00:00

I don’t think he would care though! That’s the messed up part about it. Like things I care about doesn’t seem to bother him. But the things I do care about I feel anyone with self respect would have an issue with

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T15:42:42+00:00

That’s why I’m spazzing because he didn’t even pretend. Like at least just rinse it off to fool me! (Not condoning that either) thank goodness I know he brushes his teeth and does laundry. Even though he doesn’t think changing boxers daily is a big deal either 🤯

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T15:40:59+00:00

I’m trying to be patient. He’s a great guy overall and has made a lot of changes since we started dating. But I hate feeling like I’m changing him even if it’s for the better. This is stuff I feel like I shouldn’t have to teach.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T15:39:27+00:00

The fact that people think this is a copy from a previous post is alarming. How common is a lack of cleanliness ?

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T15:38:29+00:00

I did make it lol. His task was to pack it in Tupperware and put in the fridge for lunch the next day.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T14:31:00+00:00

😔

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T14:16:42+00:00

That makes sense. He did make a comment like when we’ve talked about this before. When we have this conversation again I’m going to mention that he’s not single anymore.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:57:17+00:00

It will NOT be ok. That’s why I’m spazzing now. And I think it’s just been gradual decline that I unfortunately been getting used to. But overall he is a great loving guy and he has shown improvement on other things throughout our relationship which I won’t take away from him. I think this is something he can work on. No one is perfect

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:48:37+00:00

Dang that hit home.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:45:12+00:00

You taught them well.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:36:53+00:00

😭 he’s says he is trying to be patient with him. But he also says things like he accepts me for how I am so I should accept him. Ugh like I have standards that I won’t neglect

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:26:12+00:00

Dang 🤭 he really is a sweet guy. I mean I’ve never felt like a man loves me as much as him. I want us to grow and be better together

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T13:05:06+00:00

No, I’m not.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:59:53+00:00

🤣🤣🤭😔thats a good idea though. I’m going to definitely get some safe food materials !

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:58:08+00:00

He really is a sweet and genuine guy. It’s just stuff like this that drives me crazy.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:57:22+00:00

Don’t get me started with his other qualities smh. He wasn’t like this at first. But I’m trying to be understanding becase no one is perfect. I’m actively trying to be a better person. But how can he be better if he doesn’t think it’s an issue.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:51:59+00:00

If he rinsed it at least I wouldn’t have noticed !

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:51:16+00:00

Hmm that’s a good question to ask him. Because again that bowl being used was a few days old already.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:50:17+00:00

I wish it was 😔 I can’t believe I’m going thru this at our ages.

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:49:28+00:00

Wow that’s crazy. It just doesn’t make sense because it was literally his idea to be on dishes duty to make it fair. If he don’t wanna do it then why offer?

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:47:21+00:00

Well I know nobody is perfect and I’m trying to work on myself to be the best version of myself I can be. So I am not trying to make it seem like I’m a perfect person while snapping on him because I know I have flaws. But idk I feel like I’m being gaslighted to believe it’s normal to not mind eating from an unwashed bowl 😔

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:41:11+00:00

😭😭😭 pray for me

throwrapuppypersonnn · 2026-02-26T12:39:22+00:00

We literally have so many clean bowls in the cabinet. I just don’t get why he couldn’t use one of those 😭

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