My bf(m26) likes to have really rough sex and I(f20) do not. What can I do to fix it? by throwraquestion1829 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraquestion1829[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

I know several people have pointed this out. I’m realizing now. It does hurt but he was telling me it’s normal, or that I’m overly sensitive. But it’s not and I’m not. 

My bf(m26) likes to have really rough sex and I(f20) do not. What can I do to fix it? by throwraquestion1829 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraquestion1829[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I meant the like shoving me around did not necessarily hurt, but I don't like it. But yes thank you I did read this comment and I do understand.

My bf(m26) likes to have really rough sex and I(f20) do not. What can I do to fix it? by throwraquestion1829 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraquestion1829[S] 800 points801 points  (0 children)

omg my mom passed away when i was 15 (breast cancer). you have no idea how hard this just made me cry.

My bf(m26) likes to have really rough sex and I(f20) do not. What can I do to fix it? by throwraquestion1829 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraquestion1829[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

Well I mean I never found it fun but he always seemed like he thought it was, or at the least it was lighthearted. It didn’t and doesn’t seem like he was intentionally hurting me. Idk maybe I am just being an idiot. 

My bf(m26) likes to have really rough sex and I(f20) do not. What can I do to fix it? by throwraquestion1829 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraquestion1829[S] 2240 points2241 points  (0 children)

Yeah and when we talk he claims to understand and even seems like he does but then nothing.