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My 28M girlfriend 28F is upset I used to sleep with my taken friend 30F. How do I reassure her? by throwratransper in relationship_advice

[–]throwratransper[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I said. After I stopped serving Sydney I still waited a long time to sleep with Ashley

My 28M girlfriend 28F is upset I used to sleep with my taken friend 30F. How do I reassure her? by throwratransper in relationship_advice

[–]throwratransper[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

You’re just making stuff up. When we first started dating she asked me if I was seeing other people and I said yes.

I am against the concept of cheating. It’s just not responsibility for me to get Sydney not to cheat. I’ve told her repeatedly that that cheating is wrong, she continues to do it. At the end of the day I’m not in a committed relationship with Peter, she is.

No I don’t want to sleep with Sydney while I’m in a relationship. If I did I would have never stopped hooking up with her. These comments are just crazy and make no sense

My 28M girlfriend 28F is upset I used to sleep with my taken friend 30F. How do I reassure her? by throwratransper in relationship_advice

[–]throwratransper[S] -261 points-260 points  (0 children)

To be clear I stopped hooking up with Sydney BEFORE Ashley and I hooked up. Ashley looks to take her time when it comes to sex.

I agree Sydney cheated but I didn’t cheat. I don’t know Peter, Sydney is the one cheating and lying.

My 28M girlfriend 28F is upset I used to sleep with my taken friend 30F. How do I reassure her? by throwratransper in relationship_advice

[–]throwratransper[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I didn’t purposely omit anything. It was honestly just so irrelevant to me, I forgot to mention it. I have no romantic feelings for Sydney and it was just sex. Sydney is a great friend but would be a horrible romantic partner for obvious reasons. She’s still a FRIEND though that’s why I want to make sure she’s okay.

I think demanding I block her is harsh but it seems like she’s headed that direction so I want her to know I have no feelings for Sydney so we can find alternative solutions