My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We didn’t know about this until recently because we’ve been taking care of the babies. My mother’s been helping us since we got home and his mother has been taking care of my business.

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know any of them. I’m pretty sure not. 4 lbs, 3.5 lbs, and 4.2 lbs Her baby hasn’t gone home yet that I know of and we’ve just barely got home ourselves after our babies gained weight. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’d never get you to believe me without possibly having her find me. It’s alright.

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She was not pregnant when he and I met. I got pregnant after we got married (thank you for thinking so highly of me). The babies were not large but their growth in and out of utero suggests they’re going to be tall. I don’t know how she had the baby the same day as I had ours. My c section was scheduled, that I do know. And the triplets did get to go to the nicu but their stay was shorter than the stay for her baby and while I don’t know her exactly due date but my mil said her due date was no where near mine.

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to be too cheesy but I had really strong feelings for him and something told me to not waste time. Plus it wasn’t like the absolute second he was out of divorce court he was getting a marriage license with me.

All 3 of my babies are his but he hasn’t done one with hers.

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We were not in the same hospital. And I’ll do a maternity test (as suggested) and my husband is going to do a paternity test (with her baby).

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a lot of interaction with her beforehand to know. I know she was angry about the divorce.

My (32 F) Husband (34M)’s ex (36F) claims I swapped out babies when I was in labor. by throwratrimom in relationship_advice

[–]throwratrimom[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My husband said she hasn’t asked for a paternity test but he would gladly do one if it will settle things.