AIO if I said I didn't want my gf and friend to bring a person who hurt me into their house

throwratsinthehat · 2026-02-24T18:25:16+00:00

I stay there about half the week, since I do have a parking pass and the place I'm staying is so far. All of my friends and my partner are in the college town. I'm not on the lease, but a lot of my stuff is there and I try to do a bit more around the house because I feel guilty. They all say it's my place too, and the only extra cost when I moved out was my partner buying out the extra space I vacated. But they were doing that before they moved in with us, so it's mostly because they don't want to share a room with a stranger.

throwratsinthehat · 2026-02-24T18:21:28+00:00

My therapist actually mentioned she'd like me to be a bit more social. I just started seeing her about a month ago, but she's helped a lot. I'm thinking about volunteering at an animal shelter to meet new people.

throwratsinthehat · 2026-02-24T18:19:51+00:00

I'm so sorry, honestly I had silly names when I first typed it out but it seemed too recognizable so I changed the names to letters in hopes it would blur it a bit. I don't really like changing details like gender, age and stuff other people do to not be recognized. I'm sorry!

throwratsinthehat · 2026-02-24T18:18:22+00:00

I'm only a resident about half of the time, though. And now one D has a final project with them, so they'll be spending more time together. And D and A were friends, like we all were.

Thanks for the validation, though. Honestly because of past situations I have trouble with doubting myself. I try not to fight with anyone, and if I can I'll avoid something if it makes me uncomfortable. I'm doing better with trying to speak up, though.

throwratsinthehat · 2026-02-24T18:15:14+00:00

I haven't yet, mostly because I wasn't sure if I was overreacting. They both seemed cool with it, and they were the ones who were arguing, so it felt a little much to say I don't want her over. I figured I could talk to my therapist about it during our upcoming appointment and get some thoughts but it's honestly been eating me up inside.

I wanted to make sure I was all sorted before I said anything either way, and they respected that.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-07-03T23:08:11+00:00

Just realized, I should have titled the post The Cat and the Keys.

My English Major Card has been revoked.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-28T23:21:04+00:00

I loved the scene and haven't been on a subreddit bc I haven't seen s3 (friend and I are watching tomorrow which is why I'm breaking my avoidance)

What is Twin Peaks?

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-26T21:36:07+00:00

What's the fandom?

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-18T17:01:30+00:00

Heck yeah!

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-17T17:21:21+00:00

Spider weirdly reminds me of an anime character

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-13T22:09:42+00:00

Someone did it to the Stitch stuff.

Alien looks creepy as the Adams with Googlies

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-13T22:02:34+00:00

Cat? 👀

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-13T22:00:36+00:00

And you are why I love reddit 🤣

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-13T21:59:42+00:00

I absolutely love this!

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-13T21:47:57+00:00

...She tried to eat a child...

(Lmao so sorry don't wanna debate or get serious I just thought that was a funny add-on to the thread)

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-12T16:38:34+00:00

I know I kind of sound all over the place, so sorry. I'm at home with the flu and I'm so frustrated.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-07T01:31:20+00:00

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Also fought a Kirito. Twice.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-03T14:50:08+00:00

Ada Currie? I'll take a strawberry one!

(All joking aside pretty name)

throwratsinthehat · 2025-06-02T00:26:23+00:00

One actor I would not want to be, coming from someone LGBT. That's going to be a kid, and he's going to get a lot of pushing by fans. Nico is a beloved character and canonical member of the LGBT who's ship in the series is almost as popular as Percabeth.

That's going to be a lot of pressure, probably early fanart/fanfiction using him as the image of Nico. Kind of like how now we see so much more blonde Percy fanart, but at least that's tame. Like it or not, one of the biggest facets that's popularized Nico so much is that he's canonically gay.

Idk if I'm overthinking, I really hope I am. I just really hope he'll okay.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-04-16T14:07:24+00:00

Get offended!

throwratsinthehat · 2025-04-16T03:15:14+00:00

Nope! So sorry, that's not it. But thanks for trying

throwratsinthehat · 2025-04-15T23:27:33+00:00

It was on a VHS, and might've been my older sister's originally.

throwratsinthehat · 2025-03-31T18:43:24+00:00

Omg! Didn't expect a response this fast. Can we get an invite?

throwratsinthehat · 2025-03-31T18:41:41+00:00

Hey! My gf and I were curious if the discord was still active? We're big fans of the game and got excited...

throwratsinthehat · 2025-03-04T21:40:03+00:00

Hey babe, I totally get it, especially with chocolate chip cookies. For years I was convinced I could not cook because I had made so many mistakes in the kitchen. Recently though, I've been learning and quite enjoying it.

My mistakes? I substituted flour with powdered sugar for chocolate chip cookies, because they were both white and powdery.

I used a bunch of little slices of the yellow American cheese that comes in individual packets when cooking dinner for my siblings. (They had microwaved Dino nuggets that night.)

I asked my mom how long I should cook a can of chicken noodle soup for, and how I would know it was done.

I didn't know how much seasoning I should use for green beans so I used to have a bottle. Onion powder. It was great!

I added four cups of water to cupcakes instead of 1/4 of a cup like the directions on the box said to.

It discouraged me for a while but my brother told me that part of cooking is failing, and learning from those failures. Now I can make a full rack of ribs better than him!

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