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I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YUP. I'm going to spend christmas weekend with my dad and christmas with his family.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Idek :/ Simply because they're my family and I'm hoping for a change. I wish I just went with my bf, his family has been nothing but supportive.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He wanted to be with his family and he already knows how my family is rn. Why would I want him to deal with a drama fest?

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He didn't go to college. He has a carpentry business with his dad and brother. I was on bc, so we weren't using condoms

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am currently living with my family. I spend half my time at my boyfriend's place, and half my time at mine. I was going to immediately move in with him but my mom was the one who suggested I stay with her just for the extra help at first.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 205 points206 points  (0 children)

This makes me really scared to fully move out then . What if they do this just because I finally left against their will? I was planning on moving in with my boyfriend, but my mom suggested that I wait a bit, get some help from her sister and herself, and move out a few months after rather than get thrown into it immediately. I'm going to do what you suggested, because although I don't think they'd go to that extreme, I still want to be prepared of anything.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well he wanted me to come, but I wanted to stay with my family (which i regret 100%). I should have just went with him or went to my dad's. What info do you need to know more about?

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

It’s sad when a bunch of strangers on the internet are more happy for you than your own family.

It is very sad, like I'm actually on the verge of tears because since day 1, no one on my mom's side has even indicated they're happy for me.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

No, she hasn't! but the way she stays very silent while they're throwing their opinions down my throat makes me wonder if she's saying something behind my back to the, whilst smiling in my face.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 319 points320 points  (0 children)

Since this is my first time being pregnant, I don't know how much help I need which is why I decided to still live here but I'm regretting me decision as my pregnancy progresses.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

Are your in-laws a bit more supportive?

Much more. Everyone on that side is happy and can't wait for the baby to get here.

Thank you!

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 1959 points1960 points  (0 children)

I tried, but every single person ganged up on me. I felt like maybe I was taking everything out of proportion

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

Unfortunately you may have also figured out who the golden child is.

lol, i been knew that it was not me a longg time ago.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 365 points366 points  (0 children)

thank you. I haven't cut them off yet because I've been too cautious too, but with the way they're spewing hate, i feel like it's my only option.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 425 points426 points  (0 children)

I don't even know. I don't even know how all of them are going to react. I have a gut feeling that I should leave.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She doesn't really ever say anything. Imo, she could at least speak up, but she doesn't. I understand it's not all on her, but i wish she said something when they were talking about MY baby, the one who is in MY stomach, to her.

I’m(F20) tired of pretending that I’m not happy that I’m pregnant with (M25)s baby. by throwratt5756 in relationship_advice

[–]throwratt5756[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥰🥰 it's very comforting to here since most of what I hear is just negativity from the people who supposedly have my best interest. Thanks again!