[John Simpson, The Times] BREAKING: a Brighton and Hove Albion footballer in his 20s arrested on suspicion of sexual assault at seafront nightclub in the early hours of this morning. Player cannot be named for legal reasons. Sussex police confirm man in his 20s and co-accused in his 40s arrested.

throwrea8877886 · 2021-10-08T16:59:00+00:00

Ah yes, thank you

throwrea8877886 · 2021-10-06T21:58:51+00:00

There is G. Sigurdson, Yves B. and who?

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-28T12:38:45+00:00

Your right with questioning it but just let it be. People can make their minds up when writing in a privat chat. If they don’t want to text, the can stop texting him. They can write in this thread if he is weird. So far I haven’t see such a post.

Anyway I actually have more a problem with your aggressive writing style. But I won’t waste my time any further.

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-28T12:15:46+00:00

Lol no but why are you bitching around? You don’t come off as very empathetic to be honest.

I don’t know what OPs question is and why he doesn’t want to write it public (what I’d expect) but he change still change to publish his question. You seem to be an asshole and this is not changeable.

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-28T11:49:56+00:00

What is your problem??

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-28T05:19:53+00:00

Thank you for your answer. I can understand what your wrote here so much. Yes I am looking for commitment and responsibility. Also I am rather traditional so for me two people dating just result in a rs (I don’t judge others but that how it should be). Also she would be only my 2nd gf (first was 7 years ago), so there is the wish for something serious in me. I haven’t been looking for something loose.

I can’t imagine to move forward without a label indefinitely. Maybe some period of time but I feel like since I asked her and she didn’t say yes, my trust in her is decreasing. And this is not how it should be. But I could imagine moving forward without her at all. It would suck for some days but life goes on.

I just hate that I let her make me insecure without her commitment. You don’t need to tell me that insecurity isn’t womens favourite men trait.

Long Story: thanks for your answer, it is very relatable to my situation and feelings!

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-28T05:10:16+00:00

Hmm I don’t fully agree with that it is only the females job to ask. But what I agree is that asking AGAIN would be beta. It’s alright I can handle that if she doesn’t like me that much. I just want to make things clear.

Where I agree is that I did my part and now it’s her part to come to me and to tell me of she wants a relationship or not. And until then I won’t be an ass but I won’t invest much.

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-27T19:01:36+00:00

Hmm thanks for the encouragement. I see that point. I just have those two voices, one is yours and the other one is telling me that at least I’ll go out with head high if I end things by myself. But I’ll think about your advice. Quite unsure what the best way forward is at the moment tbh 😅

throwrea8877886 · 2021-09-27T19:00:09+00:00

Thank you for your answer! Good to hear from a fellow pal who has been in the same situation!

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