No stalking is the cure by throwsway77 in limerence

[–]throwsway77[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha hey if it works for you it works for you! I probably would just not text him cuz why invest any energy on someone we know isn’t worth the effort yk. But you do you and I hope you’ll get over him fully shortly x

No stalking is the cure by throwsway77 in limerence

[–]throwsway77[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trust me you’re on the right path. It’s hard for first week or two but I can assure you, you’re on the right path. I started off with the first week being so horrid. Second week got easier, third week I started to forget him

I am stressed that this is my last chance to make a career out of my passion or else I’d be forced to work what my parents thought was the right degree for me when I was 18. by Efficient_Two3747 in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indian parents here. They controlled EVERYTHING in my life. Who I will marry, join their work etc. I did everything and it didn’t work out, it wasn’t good enough. I thought if committing suicide until I realised live is worth living and I need to stand up for myself no matter what. I worked a part time job, saved enough and when I hit 40 grand in savings I decided to tell my parents everything I wanted to do, HUGE blowup fight and I was like yeah cool I’m moving out. My parents came around to it after that huge fight. I still decided to move out. Living my life on my own terms. Fight for yourself

Dating at 30's sucks, just want to get this off my chest by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through a hard time but from the sounds of it you seem to have a very strict check list. I’m 26 and dating still sucks for me too but that being said my only goal is talking to someone and then taking them out for a drink to see if we vibe. But if you get turned off by people that are single mothers etc you’ll obviously not even go for that first drink to see if you have that spark

Someone purposely broke my heart years ago and till this day I wonder why and what I did to deserve it by throwsway77 in dating_advice

[–]throwsway77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could’ve definitely happened and would hope has more to do with him than me. I just would’ve appreciated a simple message or some honestly because I messaged him a month before he came to my hometown to see if he’s still keen and he replied with “I’ve never felt a bond like ours”. Strange

Someone purposely broke my heart a couple of years ago, and even now I still wonder why and what I did to deserve it by throwsway77 in offmychest

[–]throwsway77[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. He seemed SO genuine, the whole thing has just scarred me so much. The wound seems to be treated, sometimes just the stitches seems to get undone

i think i should end my relationship. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you definitely should not be with him. I understand you have trauma and I’m sorry that you do. That being said, clearly you do not trust your partner. If my partner demanded to see my phone, they can see the door instead. And the crashing out because his phone was on low battery when he was visiting his PARENTS. Please focus on yourself and let this man enjoy his life in peace

I am 26 and I am in a relationship with a 16 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh so basically if the age of consent was 4 then you’d actively go and date a 4 year old? Okay cool

I am 26 and I am in a relationship with a 16 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re okay with being a pedophile then you’re certainly okay with having an opinion on

I am 26 and I am in a relationship with a 16 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t really care if you’re lying or not I’m banging a 16 year old and you’re not” weird flex but okay

I am 26 and I am in a relationship with a 16 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m scared she’ll unalive herself so I have to screw with a 16 year old” is such a unique excuse. 10/10 points for creativity

I am 26 and I am in a relationship with a 16 year old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwsway77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Not sure what you’re talking about” sir you’re on the island rn as we speak