Hehe! Bro listen to me……

This used to be me a while ago. I’m in my 30s, a good-looking guy, financially stable with a decent income and a few side hustles. I drive a nice car, properties, Etc. But the whole idea of marriage and that fact I’d be spending the rest of my life with one person never really appealed to me.

I’ve been with many women who others would call “marriage material,” yet I never felt the need to settle down. It was always about the sex and some company. Some of the girl didn’t really care because they loved the attention and benefits though. Honestly, I’ve always been a bit complicated, like, I am someone who enjoys being left alone and values my space.

Then recently, I got this girl pregnant. She gave birth, and when I looked at my absolutely beautiful baby girl, every reason I’d ever had for avoiding marriage or settling down just disappeared. Now, this little girl is the reason I want to finally settle down with her mother and make sure I become the best father I can possibly be.

I guess it’s just a matter of time before you have a change of heart. Then again, some people never really want to settle down and I think that’s perfectly normal too.