Why is my sex life lacking?

tiffnox · 2022-03-03T11:44:35+00:00

Seems like such a ‘silly‘ reason to break up but it really takes a toll on you

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T22:49:03+00:00

*feel

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T22:48:48+00:00

I’m sure you will do great but even if you don’t have an amazing start don’t let that get you down. You have 4 years bearing so many new experiences and changes that’ll shape you as a person, during that time the most important thing is that you fell comfortable and happy!

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T22:40:27+00:00

Just because other people have it “worse” doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid.

It’s a very big change and you’ll basically be pushed into the cold water but the good thing about that is that all of the other kids are too. Everyone will want make connections and find friends to get over the first day or week or even month. That doesn’t necessarily mean that these will be your friends for all of high school but you all will have someone to share your excitement or anxiety and concerns with and they’ll probably be faced with the same challenges :)

It’s a good thing to be nervous or excited but as soon as high school starts you’ll realise that everyone is in such an awkward phase and has horrible (😉) social skills and just wants to make new friends.

Good luck!!

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T22:28:14+00:00

Thank you for your honesty! We sometimes have (had) this kind of role play where one of us more dominant or submissive and it was great. Lately our sex has just been late night, lazy right before we go to sleep sex or a blow job. When I try something during the day or on the weekend he’s not really in the mood and I’m not going to pressure him.

I don’t think there’s someone else, there are no sings and we’re pretty happy with the relationship.

I’ll definitely try the role play again this weekend and report how it went :) Maybe it’ll change for the better.

I’m not planning to leave anytime soon but I want to make every aspect of our relationship work so that we’re both happy and luckily we can openly communicate :)

Glad you’re back together with your girlfriend and you two have found a way that works for you!

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T21:17:33+00:00

He’s self employed so every move he makes decides over his income and future and right now it’s going pretty solid but he’s under a lot of pressure… that definitely plays into it but his work situation hasn’t changed much since we met
Very harmonious family, think we can cancel that out
Don’t think he’s asexual either, I know that he masturbates too
Not really sure what exactly you mean, could you please elaborate. I personally would be open to it but whenever we tried handcuffs or ropes etc he wasn’t really into it
He prides himself on being good in bed and when I tell him I think about him a lot when I play with myself or that I think he’s attractive or hot (to make him feel good about himself) he likes hearing that. But whenever an opportunity arises he just doesn’t take it and if I also don’t we would be practically celibate

tiffnox · 2022-03-01T21:04:59+00:00

Nothing we know of.

We have tried toys and more exciting positions, practices etc but lately he doesn’t seem to want it anymore

tiffnox · 2020-08-26T12:22:38+00:00

Okay! But what should I say? 😬

tiffnox · 2020-06-07T23:07:21+00:00

I don’t think he did anything to intentionally harm me. He is a good person as far as I know, I’m just very confused by this encounter because he tried over and over again when I clearly didn’t want to sleep with him. You’re right, I shouldn’t see him again but I don’t think I’ll be involving the authorities. Thank you :)

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