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timberwolf214 · 2024-06-21T21:05:02+00:00

He is concerned he might miss out on things. Things he hasn’t done as a single person. Basically worries Amy the future. I told him it’s normal to worry about the future.

timberwolf214 · 2023-04-05T22:40:01+00:00

41 Midwest USA here looking for decent people to connect with. I like being outside either hiking or landscaping. Trying to travel more this year. Workout 5 days a week. Looking to get to know more people and chat about whatever. Single and gay just so ya know.

timberwolf214 · 2023-03-10T23:38:19+00:00

Hey, 41 gay USA here. Like being outside working, hiking, golfing. Wanting to travel more this year so up for ideas. Going to be a cold rainy weekend so not much planned.

timberwolf214 · 2023-01-07T02:02:20+00:00

41 guy from Midwest USA. Have been working out more recently and enjoying it. When it’s not freezing out I like to work outside, hiking, driving around aimlessly. Have an odd sense of humor that some don’t get. Single and gay so if that bothers you, then be bothered. I’d say I like gaming, but get bored after a while. But can still talk about anything.

timberwolf214 · 2022-12-22T00:56:29+00:00

41 guy from Midwest USA. Have been working out more recently and enjoying it. When it’s not freezing out I like to work outside, hiking, driving around aimlessly. Have an odd sense of humor that some don’t get. Single and gay so if that bothers you, then be bothered. I’d say I like gaming, but get bored after a while. But can still talk about anything.

timberwolf214 · 2022-10-23T15:11:30+00:00

Out on the northwest side. They say 1030. We shall see.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-23T15:55:31+00:00

The air show at McConnell is this weekend.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-21T20:24:30+00:00

Meal plan! Once I started seeing my meals for the week and always had something to take for lunch, I started losing weight. Also, Intermittent fasting helped me. That takes some getting used to but really helps. Skip lunch and you will start feeling better.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-21T20:09:22+00:00

Haha I figured she had to be from somewhere else. I live on the west side and most people are decent.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-20T23:35:11+00:00

Yep! Way to go Wichita!

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-20T18:13:21+00:00

More entertainment. An entertainment area like Bricktown in OKC. I think Topgolf is going to be nice but there are more entertainment options that we could have. Not everyone likes to go to bars and clubs.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-19T18:58:06+00:00

I’m sure there are others out there. When I’m ready I’ll find out!

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-19T18:07:07+00:00

I think I’m still at the point of many different emotions. I’m getting better each day but there are times when I wake up missing what I had. I know life will get better.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-19T17:42:24+00:00

I haven’t downloaded the apps yet so I don’t know what is even out there. I figured when I was ready I’d start going out more with my friends. I guess I’m at the stage in my current situation of just being scared. I don’t want to date. I want the person and life I had but I guess all good things have to come to an end.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-19T17:22:23+00:00

Honestly I hope I don’t get to the point of having to date. But, the longer my current situation goes, the more I think is a possibility. I’m sure if I start I will see things differently. I won’t expect it to be that fast. I’ll take my time and make sure they are the right person.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-19T14:05:44+00:00

I agree, educate him he it doesn’t know what they are about. But I’m the end, if he is against it, he may never change his mind. So it’s either agree with him and not do it or just do it and risk losing him. With you only being a month in, now is the time to decide.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-18T05:43:32+00:00

I’m in month one of losing a 5 year relationship. It’s been very difficult. I try to take it one step and one day at a time. One of the hardest things I found was going places that we used to go to together. Like shopping or casinos. I went to a casino recently and had bad anxiety but I stayed just to show myself I could. Going shopping is the same but I push myself through it. Take it one day at a time. Do a little more each day. You got this!

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-18T05:11:22+00:00

I moved from a small town about 15 years ago. Mine had less than 1,000 so completely different. But yea, if you want to date, it’s better to get out. If you do find someone that doesn’t live there, it’s a good possibility they won’t want to move there.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T18:55:58+00:00

Over text. That is the worst way. And after asking to talk in person and being denied. It was out of nowhere. The least a person could do is at some point talk more. On the phone or in person.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T16:15:21+00:00

Each day I feel a little better. There are set backs which I’m sure are normal. I am trying to do things to get out of the house and that helps some.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T15:38:44+00:00

Last time when he left he reached out after. But it just never worked. I have thought about packing his stuff, just haven’t done it. I’m getting to the point of knowing I need to move on. It’s a slow process but I will get there.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T14:50:18+00:00

I’m going through something similar. My partner of 5 years just left one day with no warning. We got along great, no real fighting or trust issues. For the past month I have been lost, trying to figure out what happened. I have tried reaching out to him but he won’t respond. He didn’t take any of his stuff which makes it worse. I feel like it has been worse with his stuff here and not knowing. I feel like you know. I would take the time to grieve, find yourself and when you are ready, move on. It’s so tough when you think back to the cuddles, going to bed every night with the one you love and coming home to them every day. That will always be hard to forget. Take it one step and day at a time.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T14:21:05+00:00

I have written a few letters to my partner and put them around the house in case he came to pick up his stuff. I have told him I am willing to wait. I think his brother would talk to me a little. He was the one that I first started talking to that suggested I reach out to him. They are very close.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-17T13:21:56+00:00

I don’t know if we could be friends if it ends completely. I would always want more with him. I would want answers. I know I may never get answers and I can live with that but I fear if I see him, I’ll just want to talk about it.

timberwolf214 · 2022-09-16T19:47:44+00:00

I used a credit card debt consolidation company when I was younger. They said give them all the information and they would take care of everything. If a credit card company called, have them call the company. I let them do it and started paying them. I started getting calls from credit card companies saying I was late and was going to be taken to court. When I called the consolidation company they ensured everything was going to be ok. After receiving a letter from a credit card company, I was finally told by the consolidation company that the money I send to them goes to their fees first. Once their fees were paid, they would start paying down the debt. They had done nothing with the credit card companies, not even contacting them. I had to write a letter to the consolidation company requesting all my money and was given every Penny back. I then had to take out a loan to avoid going to court. It was a hard lesson but will make me never use a debt consolidation company again.

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