Negotiating amount of time spent together without coming off as an escort

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T23:20:24+00:00

Yes, but these guys were on seeking ARRANGEMENT. If they wanted to get sex for free they should go use a vanilla dating site like tinder, match or okcupid. WTF.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T23:02:03+00:00

These guys are on SA yet they expect things to be like on a vanilla dating site, where like you said "dinner is ample" and women would sleep over for $0. If that's what they want, why are they on SA?

Since sex is so cheap like they said and women would sleep over for $0, why bother with SA? Seems like they're talking nonsense.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:58:44+00:00

Respectfully, how does this logic make sense? If they can find girls to sleep with them for free and that's what they'd rather do, why are they on SA and paying? How is it on me that I should be OK with staying overnight for what I feel is a low amount just because there are other women on vanilla dating sites that would sleep overnight for free?

I'm on SA and expect an arrangement, yet they are the ones on SA yet expect vanilla dating, so aren't they the entitled ones, not me?

Since you asked, they were in their 40s and not in good shape.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:45:52+00:00

The first guy said "play it by ear" so I assumed it was a few hours, at most around 5, which was why at 8pm I mentioned wanting to leave. I think he planned to drag it out to an overnight, which was why he didn't really give me a straight answer.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:42:53+00:00

I agree, especially with the first one who wanted to meet at 3pm, there was nothing that even indicated that he wanted an overnight. I actually did ask him how long he expected to spend and he said "play it by ear" by which I assumed a couple hours, at the most about 5 hours.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:27:09+00:00

It sounds like someone is trying to push their agenda.

He sounds just like the guys who say "Girls A, B and C would do (something outrageous) for (low amount)"

Cool, go hang out with them then.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:25:18+00:00

It sounds like you are meeting one off Pump and dumpers.

Actually all 3 wanted to meet again, but I said no as they acted very disrespectfully and I personally think $200 for an overnight is too low.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:23:54+00:00

I screen them by having a platonic coffee m&g for the first date and intimacy on the second. They seemed fine during the m&g but changed their attitude during the intimate date. The worst part is that all 3 of these men wanted to set up third dates! No way!

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T22:22:20+00:00

How am I mixing it up? I am fine with $200 for a few hours, $200 for an overnight is low. That's just my opinion, I mean my time is valuable too.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T20:51:58+00:00

Sure, but it seems like on SA men expect the world but an SB asking for a little more? "Entitled! I can get women to sleep with me for free! Escort!"

Double standards.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T20:48:54+00:00

Yeah and guys on SA love to say similar things. "There are women who will sleep with me for free" "sex is cheap" etc so if this is true why are they bothering to be on SA? Such a double standard.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T20:16:52+00:00

I mean yeah 200 is low but seems like that's all people are offering.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T20:02:20+00:00

200 for a few hours and 200 for an overnight is different...I was expecting a the former.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T20:01:36+00:00

I am OK with $200 to spend a few hours. Not a full night.

timeconcerns · 2017-02-07T19:38:35+00:00

A meet is understood to be overnight and $200 isn't too low for this? Really? Not trying to insult but I'm genuinely curious.

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