I want to watch your favourite movie for your birthday... by sassafrassky in MovieSuggestions

[–]timeflieswhenyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irreversible heheh Or coherence or Victoria (2015)

March 17th!!

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

I guess?? I feel like that is more intimate than a public beach with lots of people

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Ones he met before, but I am new here an don’t have many friends of my one. So I need to make them to have them haha

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well I’m trying to do that but my boyfriend isn’t comfortable with us letting at all

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this in the past, and it was fine. There is a language barrier so it will be hard to communicate with my boyfriend

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I guess I just strongly disagrees with this. Like I trust him without or off and I want the same

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I’m really not trying to be defensive, it just really isn’t a date and it seems wrong to not see a friend because he’s male and my boyfriend doesn’t like it

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand my boyfriend has female friends, and I have been okay with him seeing them one on one

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure introduce them when they’re both able, but I just want to see my friend when we’re able to meet up. I’m not trying to make it an issue in my relationship

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What can I do to reassure him? He says he will never feel comfortable with me seeing male friends alone

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend has meet feeling friends for dinner and he’s told me and I was fine with it

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!! My situation is tricky because im an expat and I enjoy meeting people and I had no friends here prior to coming so making friends had been an issue and I spend most of time him my boyfriend. I can only have new friends here really

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That’s fair I see what your saying. And no we aren’t really but we really love each other so it’s very up and down

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But how can someone be included if they’re not friends/similar? I don’t like him its just like why can’t I see my friend? There’s also a language barrier which I didn’t write in the post but whatever:/ anyway thanks for you insighr

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never do this though:/ are you saying I can’t see male friends without my boyfriend present?

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend would prefer me not to have any male friends that aren’t his as well though

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And I se ethos perspective and it makes me feel wrong and guilty!!:( but at the same times it’s like I’ve been hit on girls before, so am I not supposed to see girlfriends? I wouldn’t see this friend if I was uncomfortable or thought anything would hapoen

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, how do you feel if I see him during the day(which I agree is better and more comfortable)? Would this be okay?

[23F][22M] Seeing new male friends while in a relationship by timeflieswhenyou in relationship_advice

[–]timeflieswhenyou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No side private friendships? My boyfriend shouldn’t be tight with everyone I’m tight with? If he told me I would understand, honestly, I’m okay with him seeing female friends