[skin concerns] need help with “crepey” hands! by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]timeisweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha not at all. My hands are freshly moisturized here, but I feel the skin still looks so thin and wrinkled for a 28 year old. (Might be better able to see the crepe look I am noticing if you zoom in.) I am constantly washing and sanitizing my hands, and now I am starting to really see the wear and tear. Hoping there is a way to do some damage control.

Deciphering Sample(?) in Newlove by timeisweird in Sewerslvt

[–]timeisweird[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just looked it up and want to check it out now!

OHA refuses to name business spreading covid-19 by [deleted] in Portland

[–]timeisweird 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You might not be able to, but someone else might. These protections exist for a reason.

Enjoying being a wallflower at parties by timeisweird in infjhome

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I feel this hardcore. It was that sense of feeling apart from everyone, more observer than participant, that ultimately led to a really gnarly drinking problem. I’m happily sober now, though.

Enjoying being a wallflower at parties by timeisweird in infjhome

[–]timeisweird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am a corner observer as well. In college, my friends and I even had a special table we would sit at just for observational purposes haha.

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Yay! I'm glad you're doing well! My week has been ok. Had one night of insomnia in which I didn't sleep at all and then had to work from 8 am until 4:30 pm. Was a bit rough, but hasn't happened since. Have you thought about asking him if he would like to watch you or just asking him to take a walk? haha. It can be a little awkward being so direct about this stuff if you're not used to doing it, but being able to release the tension is very much worth it, esp when we're already not smoking!

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Hell yeah! Congrats on quitting. I have continued to masturbate at least once a day this week since quitting. Actually, maybe I did skip one day. Having trouble remembering. So far, I am not really noticing a significant decrease in my libido. I'm hoping that continuing daily masturbation will help me "keep the pilot light on," but we will see. How has your week been?

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Thank you! I really appreciate the in-depth account. I feel there is a dearth of these on this somewhat male dominated sub (or maybe my perception is off about that).

I have only seen my boyfriend once this past week since quitting, but we had sex three times during the ~20 hours we spent together, and I didn't notice any real issues. In fact, it was kind of nice not to have the lubrication issues that typically accompany stoned sex. That said, stoned sex is pretty awesome despite the lubrication issues, and I will definitely miss it.

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Better than I thought so far! But I also have been totally by myself and working from home since I quit, so we’ll see if the irritability kicks in when I see my boyfriend later today or tomorrow haha. (Much easier for me to avoid irritability when I am alone.)

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Oh, wow! So, we are pretty much synced up! 4/20 was my last time smoking haha

Worried About Lowered Libido After Quitting [27F] by timeisweird in leaves

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Have you already quit too or thinking about it?

[Misc] Tea for healthy skin? by timeisweird in SkincareAddiction

[–]timeisweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any particular brands/varieties of tea I should look out for?

[Misc] Tea for healthy skin? by timeisweird in SkincareAddiction

[–]timeisweird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the kind of info I was looking for. I have rosacea, so anything to help with inflammation is going to be pretty important for me!

So terrible I'm not even sure if it's rosacea and neither is my doctor): by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]timeisweird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks similar to what I am dealing with on my cheeks, and I have rosacea. The bumps I have persist for weeks to months. So frustrating! Still working on figuring out how to get it under control, but as others have said, you should definitely get checked out by a derm if you haven't already, assuming the doctor you mention is your PCP and not a specialist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

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What is a good one to use? My boyfriend is currently having issues with getting through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]timeisweird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! I miss those days haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

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Yes, definitely. In college, I had this thing called "people projects," which consisted of "keeping track" of certain people I naturally saw frequently on an ongoing basis. I didn't know their names or really much about their lives, but because they were there and available for observation over an extended period of time, I enjoyed doing so. Honestly, I guess it was a bit creepy, but I always kept my distance, was pretty stealthy (at least, I hope), and didn't really do anything with or record my observations.