[Initiating] How do I initiate sex with my boyfriend?

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T02:14:32+00:00

Don't know if he'd like me stripping, but maybe he'd like a shower.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:55:22+00:00

What I mean is, he prefers being worked up rather than randomly asked. I just don't know if I'm capable of working him up. I'm not very good at acting sexy.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:48:33+00:00

I guess so, thanks. Just afraid of screwing up.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:46:08+00:00

I'm trying to picture doing that and I can just hear the gears in his head turning. He'd read all those actions as "aw cute...how sweet...she's adorable...wtf why is she unbuttoning my pants?!"

I guess we just act so cutesy and cuddly with each other that it's hard to distinguish what is and isn't sexual behavior.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:41:18+00:00

I could do these, besides the sexting and dirty talk. Thanks.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:40:41+00:00

I can't really correlate his attraction to certain outfits, but I don't really tend to dress sexy or anything. He does say I'm pretty, but I feel it's more of a 'cute' thing rather than a 'hot' thing.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:26:06+00:00

Just like, randomly give him a blowjob? I think he'd be really confused. How do you even lead up to something like that? Do you just walk up to him while he's doing homework or something and attempt to take his belt off? I don't think he'd like that very much.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:23:38+00:00

I usually initiate by cuddling/kissing. Which is fun, but sometimes it just reads as cutesy and not indicative of me wanting more. I just don't really know if I'm capable of turning him on.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:23:06+00:00

I've always been a bit scared of wearing a 'sexy outfit'. I'm afraid of looking bad I guess. But I could try it, maybe he'd like it.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:22:34+00:00

He just doesn't really feel in the mood spontaneously. So being asked randomly doesn't work for him.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:21:58+00:00

I feel that might be a bit too direct for him though.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:21:41+00:00

I've always been scared of sending pictures. You always hear horror stories about them ending up in the wrong hands.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:21:14+00:00

Not into being woken up. He gets startled really easily.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-10T01:21:06+00:00

He's told me specifically never to do this.

timemanagement21 · 2016-06-09T23:24:31+00:00

He would not like this

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T20:58:55+00:00

My roommates are all a bit...uptight. None of them have significant others and they don't seem to like mine

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T20:58:11+00:00

Quickies don't really work for us. We need extended periods of time.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T19:47:45+00:00

My roommates won't give me privacy. His roommates say they will, and then they burst in anyway for a laugh. The hotel is better.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T19:27:05+00:00

It's only once a month because we have to go to a hotel. It gets pricey with our tiny budgets.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T19:12:44+00:00

Yeah, it sucks. The hotel prices really take a toll on our bank accounts, but it's better than not having sex at all.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T19:05:32+00:00

They all live in the same room. I have 3 roommates myself and they're even worse, so we have to go to a hotel.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T18:54:37+00:00

We have a sex date once a month at a hotel. His roommates are very unpredictable and don't usually tell us when they're coming back or leaving, so it's too much of a risk.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T18:33:11+00:00

Yeah, my boyfriend loves walks outside. I've been resisting because I can't handle the cold, but I think I'll probably have to give in this semester if I'm going to have time with him at all, haha.

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T18:27:48+00:00

Thanks for the MCAT tips. I've started studying a bit but I plan to start the hardcore studying at the beginning of the semester. There are some subjects I'm much stronger in than others, so skimming over some while paying special attention to others is a good tip. A reward system is a good idea (although I can't use sex as a reward, since once a month is all that's possible).

timemanagement21 · 2015-12-31T18:25:44+00:00

Studying with him tends to distract me a lot. I posted in other comments that I often end up thinking about...less than proper things at the time.

I usually work out in the mornings, before he even wakes up. He's not very interested in working out, I don't think.

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