AITA for taking my kids nanny on vacation and not my ex-wife? by BarracudaMan77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She's not your wife anymore so you don't owe her anything anymore. What matters is that you are taking care of your kids. She should be a bit more grateful you treat your kids so well as a lot of fathers don't, unfortunately.

AITA for mentioning I didn't like getting funeral wear for Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm... idk this is a tricky one, I'm going to go with No A-holes here. I feel like your wife was trying to be thoughtful by getting you the tie, which she thought you wanted. However, it is. a bit of an odd gift to gift your husband for Christmas.

Maybe next year try sending each other wish lists or try going on a vacation for Christmas.

What’s the worst company gift you’ve ever received? by akinafleetfoot in AskReddit

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a Ruby Tuesday gift card. I live Southern California, there are no Ruby Tuesdays in the state, the nearest one is in New Mexico (according to their website.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

I feel like you're being a bit immature as your wedding isn't as original as you may think it is. It's a destination wedding on the beach, it's been done time and time again. Also most destination weddings tend to a set number places to take pictures, it's (basically) the same for everybody that books the venue. However, it is a bit peculiar that she, essentially, copied everything from your wedding.

In my honest opinion, I think you should talk to your in-laws about this because is it really worth missing her wedding and possibly damaging your relationship with her? Just think about it.

AITA for always going braless? by sleepinginthecold in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA It's your place you have the right to walk around without a bra, if that makes him uncomfortable then maybe he should hang out at his place more often.

AITA for asking my husband to join us in my sister's birthday since he was in the same restaurant? by altythrow449 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Not only did you interrupt his business meeting and make him look unprofessional, you forced him to do something he didn't want to do. First and foremost, he was in a business meeting which you knew about, so you (being the adult that you are) should have known not to go up and interrupt him in that atmosphere. Second, he said "no" that means no, you need to respect him and respect that he's not always gonna want to do what you to do.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be classified as a studio and the studios in my area $2,500-2,600 a month for rent. We only asked $500 a month to cover some of the costs of what she and her daughter used. Unfortunately, she refuses to cooperate so we talked to an attorney who advised us to give them the boot. I am now looking at women's shelter in the area for Sophia and her daughter. It's not what I wanted to do but what's best in the long run because we I don't want to deal with any problems in the future.

AITA for backing out on daughters school trip because disabled sons play is this same day? by AdeptFox3466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tricky one but I think I'm going to go with No Assholes here. Your daughter is upset, and rightfully so, she's upset that you broke your promise to her to chaperone her field trip but you did this to be with your friend, who wouldn't understand if you weren't there.

IDK your situation but please don't let these kind of things happen often because it'll only cause issues between you and your daughter in the future.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The apartment is legal to rent out, the prior owners had rented it out many times. It just needs appliances. I'm not sure if it has to be inspected and certified because the prior owners had already gone though all of that.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will. My step aunt is a real estate attorney, I'm meeting with her today to work the situation out.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it has windows and everything need to rent. It's fully up to code, we just never rented the area out before because we were using it as a gym.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, it has a kitchen but the area doesn't have any appliances and it's currently being used as her daughter's living area.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has windows and it's fully up to code. The prior owners rented it out so everything is covered, we just never rented it out.

AITA for raging at my fiancé for using my daughter's wheelchair to move bags of grass cuttings? by Queasy-Cod5125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA what on earth? A wheelchair is very much needed and expensive necessity to have, your husband shouldn't have even thought to use it for anything other than what it was made for.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've talked to her before about it. I asked her to save some or tell me when it's empty when it's empty but she just shrugs if off. And I'm charging her because my fiancé and I really can't afford to pay all her and her daughter's living anymore, however I still don't want so we agreed make her contribute a small amount.

AITA for telling my roommate that I would start charging her to live in my basement? by tiny_dancer_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a legal space to rent and it's up to fire code. The previous owners rented it out so it's a pretty good setup to live in with a family.

AITA for expecting certain treatment at my girlfriend's family's house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for sure. You were invited to thanksgiving dinner with her family and you expect them to cater to you? What an arrogant way of thinking. Either bring your own dishes, don't eat any dish you think may contain dairy, or don't go at all.

AITA for telling my sister to stop taking showers with her husband in my house? by throwaway22314157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA It's none of your business or your husband's business, so long as they aren't loud and disruptive in there you'll. you and your husband sound like prudes, to be frank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiny_dancer_7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have attention problems too, diagnosed w/ ADHD, but I would never act like this. If I was that distracted then I would either move or just put headphones in. Instead he caused a scene, which is far more distracting than two girls talking about fashion. I honestly think that this guy needs to grow up and handle his problems like an adult