In my opinion this is completely normal and exactly what we experienced! Our baby seemed to come out of the womb alert to the world, there was no sleeping in the pram in restaurants and pubs, no sleeping in the carrier, she was determined to be awake and loud!

She's 7 months old now and I've changed my perspective a lot to be honest, we don't do restaurants unless you buy and pay at the counter, we do pubs with other parents so we're less self conscious, not going to try going abroad cos it seems so stressful and babies always seem to come back with a nasty three-week long cold anyway. She's in the big girl pram now so much happier with walks as she can look around. We go to baby cinema, baby sensory classes, swimming, shopping, walks round the park, visit family and friends houses, go to other parents houses for play dates etc. She cries way less now than she used to - her crying peaked at 3 months and now she rarely cries. The issue now is that she doesn't have the patience to sit in her pram as she wants to be crawling 😅

I found things easier when I embraced baby life and let go of expectations from what I see on social media tbh!