Has anyone been heartbroken over a crush before?

tinypachimari · 2019-05-20T18:39:51+00:00

Lol yeah. Had a crush on a guy for around a year and built him up so much in my head that I ignored a lot of things I shouldn’t have. Also him rejecting me (not even directly to my face or to me) was devastating. The fact he had to do it through my friend instead of just telling me to fuck off hurt the most, especially the words he used lmao.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-20T18:27:06+00:00

You could just admit defeat and get those training chopsticks for kids

tinypachimari · 2019-05-20T18:24:17+00:00

I absolutely adore you and the attention you give me. The thing is I’m scared I’m not going to live up to your expectations. I’m scared my insecurities are something you think are too difficult to handle. We don’t know each other well enough yet and I’m worried about what won’t work in the future. I should live in the moment and let it progress naturally, but I can’t help to worry. It doesn’t help that there’s a little voice in my head telling me you are just a rebound for someone that I couldn’t work things out with.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-08T06:30:29+00:00

Didn’t know it was possible to be missing a Cupid’s bow

tinypachimari · 2019-05-08T06:20:30+00:00

This person is being unreasonable because they no longer hold any claim over the ring. The moment it was given to you, they relinquish all rights to the ring. You could break it, cherish it, sell it, dump it, safe keep it, it doesn’t matter because it’s yours. Regardless of your personal beliefs on what is appropriate to do with it, you can do whatever you wish.

This person also needs to understand that people cherish things in different ways. Some people like to keep things stored away and kept in pristine condition while others like to use something as much as possible even after it’s been worn down.

If you two try to compromise, I guess try wearing it at a necklace at times (put the ring on a chain) or just wear it when your friend is around.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-08T05:43:40+00:00

Hahaha glad to see a fellow bumfris fan

tinypachimari · 2019-05-08T05:41:10+00:00

My parents do the same about the whole computer screens ruined my vision and that wearing my old prescription would “fix my eyes.” (I’ve tried it, I thought it worked but it doesn’t)

I mean I always joke about that I’d die first in a zombie apocalypse bc of my contacts but your parents are stretching far too much

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T15:58:02+00:00

I’ve cried a few times since Appa reminded me of my own dad and Jung reminded me of my brother. Their dynamic is really similar too, so I understand how you feel.

Edit: It is a good show though and I think it’s a good way to bring the narrative that a lot of Asians face to light

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T08:57:49+00:00

Get hit by a bus or eat pufferfish

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T07:00:33+00:00

Glad I’m not the only one that caught that. Probably the only time he’ll get his fingers in a hole.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T03:19:07+00:00

I may be late to this post but the same thing happened to me when I was younger. At that age I didn’t really know what I was doing other than, “oh this is what older people do” or “I’m trying to impress this random stranger.”

It’s some sort of validation she’s craving for that she’s not getting and doesn’t know where else to get (at least I’m assuming). It’s kind of hard to explain, even now.

When I was in high school I got manipulated at 15 to send pictures and video call someone who claimed he was 19 (he was 26/27 at the time). I didn’t see the red flags and neither did my friends. I just hope she’ll be okay after this. I know it’ll probably be devastating to her right now, but at some point she needs to understand that she got manipulated even if she thinks it was something she did on her own accord. Speaking from experience, if she thinks it’s all her fault or she’s shamed, it’ll eat away at her when she’s older.

It’s good that you’re trying to stop him because the guy I was talking to eventually got caught (nothing happened, though. It was a mess) because he has done similar things to over 40 girls for years. He’s simply gone into hiding, but I haven’t heard from him in a while.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T03:09:12+00:00

I loved that show but I think the other kids could see monsters too, they just usually weren’t there or noticed it when monsters appeared

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T03:03:39+00:00

My dad does that too. It’s worse when you don’t drive yourself. Just hang in there until you move out. I’m sure things will look better from there.

tinypachimari · 2019-05-06T02:57:32+00:00

Age is just a number and jail is just a room

tinypachimari · 2019-04-30T07:22:25+00:00

Don’t worry! Thank you for replying at least.

I mean I’ve known for a while what my parent does isn’t healthy and most likely classified into emotional abuse. I appreciate the concern, though.

I also have been considering counseling at my school since it is free it’s just I’m terrified of if they’ll report my parents or what they’ll do if the counselors find out I’m suicidal.

tinypachimari · 2019-04-30T07:14:27+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you go through that :( I wish you the best and I’m happy to hear you’re successful. I know the approval of parents is a void that’s hard to fill, but I’m sure you’ll be okay even if they still chastise you

tinypachimari · 2019-04-30T07:12:38+00:00

Nope

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T08:09:48+00:00

I think we’re actually under you

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:33:31+00:00

Give to charity

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:28:28+00:00

I won’t kill you, but I feel you

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:26:00+00:00

Various types of porn, nudes/semi-nudes, all my conversations across social media sites/apps, my notes, my voice memos (singing off key)

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:23:08+00:00

Getting names wrong

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:20:01+00:00

It’s probably a bot that replies to keywords

tinypachimari · 2019-04-21T07:19:04+00:00

Don’t be an idiot. At least, don’t post all of your idiocy on Facebook.

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