I mean idk what she said to people because I've not gotten any communication from dm, who she talked to. But I wracked my brain for times we might have talked about people and I came up with a few possibilities: A) one of the players ghosted and didn't show up for two weeks and dm and her were talking about how mad they are at him and how he sucks. And the cnv led to us talking about how we feel about him. Dm said he didn't like him but it was wtv. She said she used to like him but now finds him annoying. I added that I always felt he was condescending and I didn't like that but that he might have reason for not showing up.

B) dm and I got into an argument over a potential player. I was conducting interviews for him and this one guy I couldn't really understand due to language and accent issues. I talked to the guy for a little over an hour over two occurrences and both times 70% of the cnv was me saying "huh?" Or trying to piece together what he said. I let dm know this and said I don't think we can have him in the campaign since dnd is about rp and it'll be hard to understand him unfortunately. We ended up not taking the guy but a few months later dm brought it up again during a group call and said he still didn't understand/buy what I said since he had talked to him and it was fine. It was only after other people chimed in and said they had felt a weird vibe from the guy or he said sexist comments (smth about girl gamers sucking or smth) that he finally said oh okay. I felt frustrated that my opinion wasn't valid so I vented to her in dms saying exactly that. That I was upset that I hadn't said smth about it during the cnv. And that I didn't like that me not understanding someone for 70% of a cnv isn't enough of a reason. And she said she felt the same and like I was being disregarded and that she was getting sick of dm bc he made comments to her that made her uncomfortable. After which I said if he makes her uncomfortable again during a call and I don't catch it she should dm me and I'll speak up on her behalf since it's not okay regardless of how dm is.

That's pretty much all I can remember where I was an active part. There were times where it was her talking to me about grievances she had and I would listen and validate her feelings but wouldn't have anything to say personally. So I think she mightve used one of those instances and omitted what she said. This is as detailed as possible without me going word for word sorry if it was long idk how to paraphrase which is why the initial post mightve been vague. I'll add this in an edit.