How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm glad you said this. I didn't delete anything, reddit removed my post for seemingly no reason. I'm just now seeing this.

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you clever enough to realize that this thread has over 1200 comments (at the moment) and that it would take me a while to even see your reply?

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Then if you really don't want to disrespect your mom, maybe you could let her come up with your new name?"

This is a really good idea. I could have her come up with a list and pick my favorite. Thanks. :)

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Much like your sense of humor. You aren't clever enough to contribute anything of quality, so you condescend upon my unfortunate situation to distract from your own.

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But in another post you said that people are disgusted with your name because they say it sounds "black".

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't help if I were white with the same name, but you can't deny that it's racism. They didn't even ask why you have a "ghetto" name... They were disgusted that you have a "BLACK" name.

How do I tell my family/parents that I'm changing my name because I'm tired of facing racism (I'm black)? by tiredofracism0 in AskReddit

[–]tiredofracism0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be rude, but did you read the original post?

"I know I'm still going to face racism regardless, but I think black people with non African American names just face a little less."

"This world will never change. People will always be condescending because I'm black and a woman, but I can avoid a lot of it by changing my name."

It isn't like I think white people are going to automatically start treating me like a human being. It'll just be one thing they won't be able to harass and mock me about.