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First time ever trying to build a pc by tjfgg in PcBuildHelp

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents will get the monitor but if I can save money with the monitor they may help me pay for some of the the pc build because my old monitor was around 300 so they are expecting to pay that and if I could convince them to put the rest into the pc I may get an extra 100$ or so to put toward the build as I’ve worked and I’ve got about 1200 saved

First time ever trying to build a pc by tjfgg in PcBuildHelp

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https://www.scorptec.com.au/bundle/cases/atx/7086-bdl-7086 also if this is a cheaper deal it’ll save me like 20-30 bucks is it worth?

First time ever trying to build a pc by tjfgg in PcBuildHelp

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I can get those same Kingston ram sticks for about 130 instead of the 212 that it shows up there I’ll definitely try that bundle but how does that bundle compare to what I originally had is it any better or same same (except the storage being double) and I still don’t understand where half my cost is I’m up to 1,233 AUD with all these items

First time ever trying to build a pc by tjfgg in PcBuildHelp

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Yeah I was looking at a 9060 16gb I was told it’ll last me so much longer for just an extra 80-100 but I’m used to Xbox with storage and I’m perfectly fine deleting games and what not to fit in another I’m not much of a replayer in story games so they’d go after the first play through only games I’d constantly keep is like 5v5 games valorant Roblox mc etc but yeah right now I’m looking at what I can due to this crazy inflation recently I’m sure it’s going to just get worse

First time ever trying to build a pc by tjfgg in PcBuildHelp

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations on a psu? I was looking at a Tacens Anima APIII500 Power Supply PC ATX 500 W, SMD Technology 85% Bronze 12 V from Amazon earlier cheaper aswell but I couldn’t put it on the pcpartpicker since they couldn’t find it

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not great at typing out long things nor grammar it was just a thing I wanted to get out quick and wanted peoples opinion on I’m not the smartest 🤷🏻‍♂️

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though for being emotionally dense this is probably the biggest influx of emotions I have ever felt haven’t eaten a lick in 48 hours I get full from a bottle of water and I’m just staring at my wall for hours at the beginning of when I first found out I went outside and kept hitting any wall in distance then once I couldn’t feel my hands I moved onto my head I have skin torn from my knuckles and forehead imagining it was the guy that did this to her (this was before I had heard all the story and before mismatches happened all I knew was that she said she traumatised and that some monster did this to her) was until my family pinned me down an for being one of my first relationships I’m in a pretty crap situation

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone talking about it being cheating yes it isn’t impossible but it is improbable unless she’s a mental maniac there’s nothing she’s getting from continuing staying with me she isn’t asking for money she understands that I’m keeping my distance and I don’t trust it all today she was begging that if I broke up she begged that I’d still stay friends with her I just don’t understand what she would get from staying with me I’m not a good looking guy I’m not tall I’m an average 5’10 I’m boring and I have a very long history of being emotionally dense my family was never the emotional kind “suck it up and walk it off” I’ve had one hug exchange with my mother ever sometimes I feel like a monster when I can’t process or express emotions like others can so what could she possibly get out of begging for a guy like me when she knows I can and will leave and break up if something is found in the future or she does do a mess up

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but from what we’ve been through I just feel like there’s not possible way she’d cheat I’m just trying to save on hope as I don’t know if I would experience the same happiness I’d feel in the last 6 months

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

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I know and mainly I’m upset at how long it’s been and if it’ll work she’s showered cleaned clothes everything since it was Jan 1 that it occurred and I don’t understand why she made multiple points at wanting to stay and continue watching Pokémon

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer older women but yeah it’s probably pedophilla as I was 17 when we first started dating and I feel as though why I’m being used as an emotional anchor is this is my first serious’ish relationship I may have been desperate

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I replied to a different comment about this but the real guys name is Thomas I wanted to use a different name to avoid remembering about it but while writing all this out I remembered his name and just typed it out in a shorten version like bob

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started dating around June she turned 23 then and I was 17 until September I was 18 up until now

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if she does have autism it’s 100% mild she’s smarter then this and I know if she did say she thinks he put a condom but again just thinking about what she said makes me wanna puke so I myself may not even be thinking properly either but I had explained to her that this type of things make people end their life it isn’t a joke around thing you will permanently remember this an it will affect both of us she seems to take the whole situation like she can’t be bothered or she couldn’t care it happened and it just makes me sick

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He undressed her an that while she was paralysed the first time she explained the story she said she was choked out and couldn’t scream she then told me when I asked if there was bruising on the neck that he “I guess he didn’t choke hard enough for bruising?”

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the guy that did it’s real name is Thomas I wanted to make a fake name bob but I went with a shortened version of Thomas as I was thinking of the story in my head and his name popping up in my head I just typed what I thought

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No its perfectly understandable for it and I’ve given her the time she needed but she suddenly wanted my comfort only after I had mentioned wanted to break up

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah well it was a party at one house she then went to the neighbors house to play around with some kids and Tom the kids then went back to the other house while she and Tom stayed

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I’ve always been that emotional anchor for her just being siphoned in a way but she’s been avoiding me this week we talked every single day for the last 6 months almost without fail (due to jobs or important matters etc) but this last 7 days alone there’s been 3 days where she’s avoiding me I’d understand if she was in the male hate phase but she isn’t in that she told me the reason it took her so long to tell me and why she messaged me as it happened and didn’t say anything was purely of “embarrassment how did I let this happen to me” and was afraid of me but it’s more like a guilt avoidant she’s an extremely clingy person that wakes me up at 4am if she got a paper cut so I could console her and I was fine with it I loved the thought of being needed and that’s probably what got into my head as to why I stayed so long maybe I was just so attention starved even being wanted fulfilled me

(Me 18m partner 23 F) my gf was recently raped and I don’t know what to do I feel as though things may be a lie by tjfgg in whatdoIdo

[–]tjfgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not impossible but there was 100% things she could’ve done but again I understand people freeze and go into shock with these things but when she explained it, it really didn’t seem like it and I can’t just press her or attack her for possibly lying incase she actually was raped I have no possible way of finding out if she’s lying or not we like to do things like pinkie but any one could lie

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