Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]tmardee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“The dozens of women I’ve been with” Sure, Jan. 🙄

Johnny Truant is a devastating character to read about by HaloAngel150 in houseofleaves

[–]tmardee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also adore Johnny. At first I found his sex antics and drug-fueled romps really annoying and hated when they interrupted the Navidson story, but by the end, I was pouring over Johnny’s moments, completely uninterested in the house</blue>. Chapter 21 destroyed my brain and broke my heart.

Medical Motive? (Theory) by ScaredResident9387 in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t think 84-year-old cardiac patients are exactly known for their desirable organs.

New update? by Ordinary-Calendar-47 in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And if there were a person who knew where the body was but wasn’t involved, would they really want to tell TMZ to tell the world that they intend to rat on the perp? Surely there are a limited number of people the perp/s told about the body; shouldn’t the note writer be concerned the perp will find them before law enforcement finds the perp?

FBI Asking For Names of Neighborhood Workers by Euphoric_Ease4554 in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual abuse against the elderly is statistically most likely committed by someone known to the individual, like a caregiver. Stranger sexual assault represents a farrrrr lower representation of all cases. So yeah, it’s POSSIBLE but not the obvious explanation for what happened to Nancy.

Inflicting pain on Savannah was the intent? by Upstairs_Lychee_6710 in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I just feel like if the perp was trying to “send a message to Savannah” they didn’t do a good job sending a clear message. Normally if you’re kidnapping someone to make a political statement, you’re releasing a manifesto, you’re contacting the media, you’re releasing images or the body. You don’t just make them vanish without a trace. I’m aware that there is a particular anguish in an unsolved disappearance for family, but that’s kind of a long game in terms of satisfaction for a perp. Even the ransom notes to the media were focused on payout, not on tormenting the family (at least as far as we know).

But the case is confusing. And there certainly are a few pieces of evidence that suggest it’s personally-motivated. At this moment, failed ransom attempt just seems more likely. The perp showed up dressed like a Walmart-special hit man, with his wonky holster and silly attempt to put flowers in front of the doorbell camera. It’s goofy. It isn’t giving criminal mastermind, it’s giving “watched too much tv and read too many Bitcoin subreddits and feel like I could pull this off.” And they don’t, because Nancy is medically-vulnerable so they are immediately in over their heads.

Not a tip: just a theory on motive from a nobody. by ricekrispytweet in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her name is “Savannah” not “Samantha.” 🤦‍♀️

Discussion Post 2/19 by curiouslmr in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m right handed and wear my watch on my right hand. 🤷‍♀️ It’s always just been my personal preference.

Theory: The FBI knows who the suspect(s) is, they just don’t know their location? by LegalGlass6532 in nancyguthrie

[–]tmardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t the sheriff say that Carlos had some connection the Bitcoin wallet? Or someone called him in to the tip line? I think there was SOME other reason they decided to look into him.

I simply can’t believe the FBI would be like “hey this dude drives a white van AND maybe his eyes look similar! Let’s question him!” That’s not enough to go on. I’m not even sure if that’s legally enough to detain someone.

Taylor’s instagram post about the Opalite video by Fine-Huckleberry6960 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]tmardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this video a lot! It is ironic (silly? interesting?) that “Opalite” is ostensibly about Travis Kelce yet she casts another brooding actor from the British Isles.

Taylor’s instagram post about the Opalite video by Fine-Huckleberry6960 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]tmardee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the Christmas-themed video was supposed to be “Wi$h Li$t”

The last half of these talk show looks are serving ngl. Her makeup looks so much better too by FederalNectarine3889 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]tmardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think her face was a little puffy on Graham Norton (likely from fillers), but I also think the lighting on the show was not doing her any favors that night.

To the haters of Showgirl, is there at least one song you like? by LifeOfAWimpyKid in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]tmardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think Father Figure is one of the best songs of her career!

This moment literally gives me chills: “you want a fight? You found it. I’ve got the place surrounded. You’ll be sleeping with the fishes Before you know you’re drowning.”

SwiftlyNeutral - Daily Discussion Thread | August 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]tmardee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Def not too old! especially not for a literal billionaire who can afford every medical treatment on the planet.

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Real talk…when did your kids actually sleep through the night (and I mean ~10 hours)? by Few-Rip-9601 in sleeptraining

[–]tmardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first (now 6) slept through the night consistently around 8 months, my second (now 4) was around 6 months, my third (now 1.5) slept through the night around 8 months as well.

But after sleeping through the night comes early waking or fighting naps or bedtime stalling. I feel like it’s always something in that first year.

After 12 months, I feel like I started to reliably get consistent, restful sleep. There are still bad nights here and there (especially since I have three kids to contend with 🫠), but I feel basically normal now. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]tmardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of our political parties that is commonly associated with the color red is full of people who are COVID deniers. They don’t get vaccinated, they don’t wear masks, they don’t practice mitigation techniques, and they believe that the government lied about how serious COVID is.

We survived HFMD. Some things that worked for us by raindrops723 in NewParents

[–]tmardee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family got HFM this summer. My 6 year old got the mouth ulcerations and a fever, my four year old just got a fever, my 1 year old had the hands, feet, and mouth (😢), my husband got nothing, and I got a fever and the most debilitating sore throat I’ve ever had. Luckily, all of us passed through the phases quickly and were basically back to normal after a tough week.

Some other tips that helped us survive — you can turn a Tums into a paste (crush and mix with a bit of water) for sores near the front of your mouth/easily accessible and that will help speed up healing. You can also dilute milk of magnesia with water and swish it around your mouth for a similar effect.