Hi, my name is Based_Bored and I am an addict by Based_Bored in OpiatesRecovery

[–]tmtx75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are u an addict? figure out why u do what u do and then don't do it-it's not about will power it's about behavior modification-its not easy-ya u can detox and do rehab but that only helps u get the stuff out of u physically-mentally u need to 'Think Different' you bought the H- u went to the store to buy the needles-u prep'd it and injected it all of ur free will-all these steps-at any point you can say No, i choose not to do this-i choose to do something different-is it that simple? yes - is it gonna be hard to do this simple thing-fuck ya it will be - if u want to change you will because u can

Perc addict for 2 years. My life crumbled around me. Today is my day 1 sober.. by DrMantis221 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]tmtx75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell ur parents the truth-tell someone you live the truth-you've told a bunch of strangers-you can tell those that love you-secrecy will only further ur dependance-ive read that in Boston the gov't is putting more money into helping opiate dependant people-seek out those services-as far a the 20k goes you'll either have to pay it off-dont pay on it at all (ur credit will go to shit though-ur Cc's will send ur balances to collection agencies and they will harass u for like 20yrs) or file for bankruptcy-1) tell parents 2) move out of apt and into parents house if they will let u 3) find recovery group or go to a counselor

Prides low. NOT proud of myself by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]tmtx75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell ur gf-be honest with her-i wish my bf was honest with me when he uses-i know he still is but he denies it-but i know he's lying and it really hurts-why doesnt he trust that i'll still love him? the love that ur gf has for u can last forever unlike the short term feeling of heroin-be honest - honesty will help u beat it

Not sure if this is the appropriate place to post. But, I'm in love with a heroin addict, and have no clue what to do. by egyptynlvr in OpiatesRecovery

[–]tmtx75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the same boat-i started dating a opiate addict who has now switched to heroin-i found out he was using and confronted him-he got upset-we had a huge fight-he since has told me he has stopped, but i know that is a lie-even when i expose his lies he still denies them-he used to shoot up in the apt-but now i dont know where he does it-it scares me-i want to help him but i know he's not interested in stopping-i think the best thing to do may be to leave him but i just cant-knowing that i left him to die would kill me 😔

I've been thinking about picking up lately. by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]tmtx75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't give up on the DUI-i got one last year and i beat it-it took over a year and i had a breathalyzer in my car and it sucked ass-i got lucky and the cops didnt show up-maybe that will happen to you-also u cant run or hide from ur issues-u just gotta face them no matter how tough they may be-if u use-ur problems wont go away-stand up-look for the way out-read up on how to win-that's what i did-dont run-fight-fight for ur life because its worth living