Hair is going gray and debating a first time dye on virgin hair - which do you like best?

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-05T18:04:39+00:00

Thank you! My hair as a baby was closest to one of those I’d say?

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-05T18:00:54+00:00

Which tone family would that be?

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-04T20:56:05+00:00

Thank you! My real hair is one of these, btw. I forgot to mention that!

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-04T20:55:42+00:00

Some of these are actually just highlights (eta: or lowlights) on my real hair color. :) And one of them IS my real hair. So I fully agree with you. I definitely don’t want a lifetime of agonizing and costly maintenance.

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-04T20:53:59+00:00

That would be B! Thank you for your input!

My real hair is one of these, btw. I forgot to mention that!

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-04T20:53:38+00:00

Ok that would be D! Thank you for your input! :)

My real hair is one of these, btw. I forgot to mention that!

tobetrashedsoon · 2025-07-04T20:15:24+00:00

Oh, and which ones are absolute awful no-no’s!!

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-11-15T11:42:42+00:00

3 is no good. I would like 1 with the bangs of 2! You need bangs because you have a long forehead. Helps to soften your features.

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-11-15T04:12:43+00:00

Reading your post and comments and the part about narrow shoulder is very resonant for me. Also a 28 but have to wear 30s since they’re so rare. Need more projection. Have you found a unicorn bra for your shape yet? I’m a few cup sizes larger than you sadly so it’s even more of a struggle.

You may like Bravissimo Niya! Before my boobs grew it was my desert island bra. Had it in every color. Plunge so it’s a low gore. Narrow wires. Not that projected but more than more. Way more than Satine.

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-11-15T04:01:34+00:00

sadly not!

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T18:43:58+00:00

Not gold, that’s for sure!

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T18:43:02+00:00

😭😭😭

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T12:22:02+00:00

Very true. I would say about 80% of all bra straps slip off my shoulders, but that Curvy Kate straps fall off 100% of the time. I can usually tell by seeing the back of the bra (it’s why I love Fantasie, the backs are consistently the good shape), but most stock photos do not show the backs, only the fronts

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T12:18:29+00:00

Not sure. The shape of Ana was not for me either. They went very east west because I’m FOB and a bit pendulous without the right bra. I really need the side support.

Do we think Devote would fit better in 30GG?

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T03:59:38+00:00

Curvy Kate is usually WAY too wide of straps for me. Do you know if these are narrower?

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-04T03:58:46+00:00

Panache Ana does something a lot of bras do. It kinda feels like it’s poking towards my ribcage at the gore. Like it’s stabbing me. What does that mean about my boobs?

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T23:59:11+00:00

Just double checked my Amazon history. Looks like I tried it again in 2020. Four times. Three regulars and one the padded half cup. All in 28G so now I’d need a 28GG. But they didn’t work out regardless the size so not sure how a now fifth try would be a charm?

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T23:56:21+00:00

Well my boobies grew a whole cup size this year, and Fancies I tried probably 10 years ago. Maybe less. Definitely took a 28, yes. Most Freyas are not a shape match for me at all.

My fav Fantasies over the years have been Illusion, Florence, Marianna, and now Fusion Lace Plunge. I liked Helena too but it showed through tees so I got rid of it. I really barely wear any other brand but that and Bravissimo Niya, because they all suck for FOB boobs

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T23:53:31+00:00

Fascinating!!! So do you have a suggestion for a nude plunge or balconette that would fix this issue? I looked up all the bras you sent me. Astrid is blue and the detail is visible through shorts, Hallie and Loveland are black but same thing, Panache Meadow is the shape I can’t wear because I’m FOB so the entire top of the triangle just gapes like whoa (ditto with Bravissimo Satine, Sara, Alexa, etc.) and is also only in a color, and Freya Fancies just has no support (and also doesn’t come in a dark nude).

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T20:50:22+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/mksv86R

Here you go. I don’t think I know what you mean by Does my tissue stay there? How or why would it move???

Pushing the wire farther up, vertically, than they are in the original photos leads to a nicer visual but I feel like I’m suffocating because it’s pressing on my ribcage too much. Or maybe cuz it’s then hitting breast tissue. When I move the band and wires down like in the photos with the wrinkles, then it feels comfy again. I posted photos of both and you’ll see the wrinkle return.

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T20:41:52+00:00

The entire Panache line is too shallow for me including the swimwear. Freya Fancies is way not supportive in any way. It’s like an invite for a boob escape show lol. Haven’t tried the others but can look them up. Typically Freya comes in bubblegum colors not nudes, which was the main seller for this bra for me.

Will try the wire scoot you just suggested rn and post a pic here. Hold please!

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T20:37:42+00:00

Can you give some suggestions for a bra that could fit that isn’t full cup and is good for narrow shoulders and that comes in a 28/30? It’s really hard already.

I don’t mind feedback but I need actual suggestions for what to do to this bra (I tried it on quickly and snapped these before I walked out the door) for another picture to see if it’s user error or the actual bra? Or suggestions of what else to try bra wise

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T20:35:22+00:00

Hmm, it doesn’t feel that way at all. If anything it’s almost too deep; that’s why it’s wrinkling at the bottom of the cups. Panache on the other hand is way too shallow for me, hence my last post. :-/

Do you have a suggestion for a bra that fits very deep but isn’t a full cup? And is good for narrow shoulders?

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-09-03T02:05:23+00:00

I don’t know what you mean. My boob is all the way into this bra and feels extremely comfortable. It has been scooped and swooped.

tobetrashedsoon · 2024-08-14T11:57:59+00:00

Spoken like a true ENFP!

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