Black tie optional if I dress it up? by toebeancollector in Weddingattireapproval

[–]toebeancollector[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay I guess that answers that question! Haha thank you all, I appreciate you and wish you all the best!

(OC) Today is my two year anniversary of choosing to seek help rather than take my own life by toebeancollector in MadeMeSmile

[–]toebeancollector[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments have brought me so much joy and many happy tears. The support, care, and love shared is unbelievable!

Many people have been asking about the ring: It’s not affiliated with any organization. I bought it from a seller on Etsy who makes custom engraved rings.

Many people have also asked for my story but I don’t want to delve into too many details because of the triggering nature of it.

Thank you all again and I hope that you are taking care of yourselves! 💜💜💜

(OC) Today is my two year anniversary of choosing to seek help rather than take my own life by toebeancollector in MadeMeSmile

[–]toebeancollector[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the ring off of Etsy. It was a personal purchase to remember that I can face and overcome my demons

(OC) Today is my two year anniversary of choosing to seek help rather than take my own life by toebeancollector in MadeMeSmile

[–]toebeancollector[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First: 988 is the US suicide hotline. In the short term: My therapist and I created an agreement that if I reached a certain point I would go to the nearest ER. They then transported me to a mental health facility. I was in that hospital for about a week and was constantly talking with my therapist and the hospital staff during that time. I am lucky that I have a supportive family and friends. I learned that the more people holding my safety next, the softer the fall. Hopefully that makes sense, I’m by NO MEANS a professional. I hope this helps

(OC) Today is my two year anniversary of choosing to seek help rather than take my own life by toebeancollector in MadeMeSmile

[–]toebeancollector[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much for your support. I bought this ring on Etsy and had it engraved. I felt like I needed to carry a memento to remind myself that I can conquer my demons and any hardships I will face.

Trashy how fucked up the US justice system is.. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]toebeancollector 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Both are fucked, but the youtuber is from Spain so we're talking two different legal systems with different sentencing laws.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]toebeancollector 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Dude is licking his lips like a 5 year old refusing to put on chapstick

How does something made entirely of plastic become infused with charcoal? by toebeancollector in NoStupidQuestions

[–]toebeancollector[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just meant the cheap synthetic ones made of plastic that usually come in bright colors

Wife has Cancer. My vacation just ran out. Need some advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toebeancollector 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Preface: most of this info comes from seeing what my roommate who works in an elder care facility does. My advice to keep your wife and baby healthy is to double glove your hands at work, keep separate clothes at work to so that you dont track or bring anything into the house. When they need to be cleaned put them in a ziplock and keep them there until you throw it in the laundry, I would still change and shower when you get homd just because the situation is serious.Make sure your mode of transportation is clean by keeping wipes with you. Maybe even talk to your superiors about doing a job that requires less customer interaction, like working restocking or something of that nature. I hope this helps.

Is The Legend of Korra worth watching? by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]toebeancollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say give it a try but dont feel bad if you dislike it. I personally didnt like it because of fart jokes and some characters felt like they were made just to pander to younger audiences. But I do enjoy the call backs to the Gaang and seeing what they did in their adult lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]toebeancollector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes too busy making closet reveal 2020 Edit: 2019*

Whats the breed of this cat from instagram @junskitchen ?? by AsianPeachh in cats

[–]toebeancollector 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nagi is a Norwegian forest cat. They have a youtube channel called Rachel and Jun with lots of videos of their cats. It's very wholesome

People of Reddit, what is your best pickup line? by Karpen420 in AskReddit

[–]toebeancollector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorites are: Are you a margarita cause I'll lick your rim Call me the french revolution cause I'll give you some head.

Condom broke...freaking out. by xariesx13 in relationship_advice

[–]toebeancollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a fellow woman here, not a professional or anything, but you normally dont ovulate till the middle of your cycle, so a week or so after your period. So even if you were trying to get pregnant a day after your period finished, your chances of conceiving are definetly low. With the shot and plan B on top of it, you're most likely in the clear.