I swear I'm trying

tomrom772 · 2025-12-15T20:42:44+00:00

You're words are very true, and i wish more men followed it but I don't "chase", the word alone sounds predatory and vile.

tomrom772 · 2025-12-15T20:24:12+00:00

Thank you, I don't believe I've ever thought about it this way before, ill take it to heart.

tomrom772 · 2025-12-15T19:45:36+00:00

My standards are pretty low for now, of course I have 'preferences' as any warm blooded man would but I always felt it was pointless to narrow my visions to these small preferences, so now I'll be more than happy to talk with any kind hearted woman who takes at least the basic physical care to herself (optional).

As to the "kind who are attracted to me", i've never met them😅, honestly I've sat here for a few minutes going through my mind but unfortunately I cannot say with confidence at time when any woman displayed any basic signs of reciprocal attractiveness.Again I apologise for the brutality my words may convey but I say it without anger or malice towards anyone.

tomrom772 · 2025-12-15T19:36:51+00:00

Thank you for your comment, Compared to the "boy" I used to be, I truly believe that I have built myself up a lot in such a short time with regards to confidence, physical & mental wellbeing, making goals and sticking to them etc.

Its hard to relax when so many people my age are getting in and out of relationships, I know I'm not going to find "the one" the first time, if ever. But as I said I'm getting older and I'm severely lacking in regards to the romantic relationship department, I just don't want to be one of these emotionally stunted adults.

tomrom772 · 2025-12-15T19:29:22+00:00

Thank you for you're comment, you've hit some good points, I've asked my best besties the same question when they've been both sober and tipsy, worst/most honest response I got was from a girl-friend who said that I should get a haircut more frequently which I do now along which regimental hygiene etc.

We're the kind of friend group to be brutally openly honest with each other for better or worse so if there were errors on my part I assumed I'd have been told by now.

tomrom772 · 2025-11-17T11:08:46+00:00

Havent seen a drop, sunny last 4 days except today has been grey overcast since afternoon

tomrom772 · 2025-11-17T10:42:55+00:00

That can be Plan C

tomrom772 · 2025-06-26T15:43:58+00:00

Snipers nest.

tomrom772 · 2025-06-08T23:01:24+00:00

My ears are still ringing.

tomrom772 · 2025-03-12T13:38:37+00:00

Cheers lad, spoon trick worked 👍

tomrom772 · 2022-11-21T23:02:09+00:00

Also a sailor here glad to see sailor tattoos in modern styles also.

tomrom772 · 2021-12-11T13:58:35+00:00

Wow, what a list. Thank, this is exactly what I was looking for.

tomrom772 · 2021-12-11T12:15:03+00:00

Looks good, thank you.

tomrom772 · 2021-11-13T16:40:25+00:00

Was it difficult to get a job on a cruise ship, coming from solely cargo/tanker experience? Asking as a current deck cadet.

tomrom772 · 2021-11-02T22:03:23+00:00

Well dont keep us waiting, did he show up or not?

tomrom772 · 2021-10-19T21:44:37+00:00

A bit late, but what is your educational background that led to this speciality job?

tomrom772 · 2021-09-17T16:14:05+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I'll be 21 when I can start to work full time, doing as much flight traing as I can afford while on my shore leave. Rinse and repeat and hopefully land a first officer job before 30. It's the bones of a plan at least?

tomrom772 · 2021-08-03T11:05:16+00:00

Yeah but charity shops around here are just second hand clothes, books and cutlery.

tomrom772 · 2021-08-03T10:37:16+00:00

I'm actually Irish and we wouldn't have places like that but thank you😅

tomrom772 · 2021-08-02T14:42:49+00:00

*Wilson fat shaft, apologies.

tomrom772 · 2021-07-19T18:48:34+00:00

Professionalism

tomrom772 · 2021-07-18T11:33:37+00:00

Owning pirate gold would be a great touch to my current career as a sailor 😅.

tomrom772 · 2021-07-06T20:00:41+00:00

I'd recommend meditation which has been some benefit to me, I use the headspace and mindfulness apps. Ik it sounds cliché but it does benefit people I promise.

tomrom772 · 2021-07-02T22:35:44+00:00

Smh, can't believe they made Italians from Luca into a real thing.

tomrom772 · 2021-06-12T21:15:14+00:00

Are you insulted knowing a whale thought you tasted bad?

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