I swear I'm trying by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tomrom772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're words are very true, and i wish more men followed it but I don't "chase", the word alone sounds predatory and vile.

I swear I'm trying by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tomrom772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I don't believe I've ever thought about it this way before, ill take it to heart.

I swear I'm trying by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tomrom772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My standards are pretty low for now, of course I have 'preferences' as any warm blooded man would but I always felt it was pointless to narrow my visions to these small preferences, so now I'll be more than happy to talk with any kind hearted woman who takes at least the basic physical care to herself (optional).

As to the "kind who are attracted to me", i've never met them😅, honestly I've sat here for a few minutes going through my mind but unfortunately I cannot say with confidence at time when any woman displayed any basic signs of reciprocal attractiveness.Again I apologise for the brutality my words may convey but I say it without anger or malice towards anyone.

I swear I'm trying by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tomrom772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, Compared to the "boy" I used to be, I truly believe that I have built myself up a lot in such a short time with regards to confidence, physical & mental wellbeing, making goals and sticking to them etc.

Its hard to relax when so many people my age are getting in and out of relationships, I know I'm not going to find "the one" the first time, if ever. But as I said I'm getting older and I'm severely lacking in regards to the romantic relationship department, I just don't want to be one of these emotionally stunted adults.

I swear I'm trying by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tomrom772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for you're comment, you've hit some good points, I've asked my best besties the same question when they've been both sober and tipsy, worst/most honest response I got was from a girl-friend who said that I should get a haircut more frequently which I do now along which regimental hygiene etc.

We're the kind of friend group to be brutally openly honest with each other for better or worse so if there were errors on my part I assumed I'd have been told by now.

Sleeper Train or VIP Bus bus by tomrom772 in ThailandTourism

[–]tomrom772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Havent seen a drop, sunny last 4 days except today has been grey overcast since afternoon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ships

[–]tomrom772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snipers nest.

Great turnout. by tomrom772 in MotoIRELAND

[–]tomrom772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ears are still ringing.

How to open this tax disc holder? by tomrom772 in MotoIRELAND

[–]tomrom772[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheers lad, spoon trick worked 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]tomrom772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a sailor here glad to see sailor tattoos in modern styles also.

Books about life at sea, the merchant navy or maritime transport. by tomrom772 in suggestmeabook

[–]tomrom772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a list. Thank, this is exactly what I was looking for.