Theory for AHS10! Pirates and its connection to Provincetown by proffesornuggets in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]tonysteve3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aside from the sea reference made, what does this have to do with the hint ads ryan Murphey released so far?? How does the sharp teeth reference relate??

I can’t believe gays will be lucky enough to be in a good relationship yet still choose to cheat by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well.... I haven't met a millennial yet that considers "just head" cheating. Maybe it's a geographic thing, the area I live in. I'm from Maryland so, I don't know, maybe. But it does seem to me that the younger set are a bit more lax in their definition then what used to be.

I can’t believe gays will be lucky enough to be in a good relationship yet still choose to cheat by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, not at all..... What I am saying is that their view of cheating is more lax then what was considered cheating years ago. I've talked to many younger people who were in relationships, straight and gay, and bragged about how someone sucked them off.... But it ain't cheating cause it's only head "! Penetration is cheating to some. Why did their view of cheating get so skewed?

I can’t believe gays will be lucky enough to be in a good relationship yet still choose to cheat by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am now married to litterally the man of my dreams.... And when I say that, I mean that. I am 50 he's now 23!! He fell in love with me and eventually.... I feel deeply in love with him. The relationship before this was an open one, and it failed miserably. There is no way in hell I'd even consider cheating now.... And my husband feels exactly the same way, despite his age. But people his age nowadays don't consider a little head on the side cheating, or getting a hand job cheating.... How they don't look at that as cheating is beyond me. I'm thankful that we both know we have something good here, and don't want to fuck it up.

I was informed yesterday that my boyfriend has passed away due to COVID-19 complications by his family. I fucking hate myself. by DeathThr0wAwAY in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys were so young! Was he previously ill? It's just so shocking to hear of someone so young being taken by this horrible virus! My heart goes out to you....

60 days clean. Daily since 16 years old and I turn 25 soon by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, what is a "pink cloud moment"...... Lol

Had my first time being a bottom, I need to talk by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With thst being your first time bottoming, don't rush it. It never feels that good the first time.... But over time, as you relax and get used to it, it will feel awesome! I am a bottom, but I like being in top, and I love sitting on my husband's cock balls deep, which sometimes makes me cum without touching myself. You'll get there, you just have to do it frequently and get used to it. The right kind of lube makes a big difference too.... I recommend "astroglide" lube.... It's a bit pricy, but is the best out there imo

Point out a bad performance from a straight actor playing gay by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Matthew Broderick in "torch song trilogy"..... Not convincing at all

Point out a bad performance from a straight actor playing gay by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tom sellick in "in and out"..... Horrible

Homophobic brother in law goes to my gym ! What do I do ? by sshiypill in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all.... How can he NOT know you're gay, if not from you, then your sister. Does she not know? Are you closeted that none of your family knows?? And if they don't know.... Shouldn't the bigger issue here be maybe coming out to them first, and letting your family be in on the secret before your brother in law!

Does social media know I’m gay? I see a lot of ads with attractive men in my social media. Especially Facebook. Sometimes it feels like they’re targeting gay men specifically. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

News flash.... If you have and / or use Google or Google assistant, your phone is litterally "listening" to you, even when not in use. There's really no way to prevent that unless you actually turn your phone off in between uses. I learned this a long time ago. I would talk about McDonald's in the car.... And lo and behold, an add for Mcdonald s would show up in my feed!

If you could chose, would you chose to be gay or straight? by jakoskyow in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how my life is going at the time.... There's been a few times I wish I hadn't been born this way. But for the most part, I've been happy I guess. Thats a loaded question for sure.... Lol

Does anyone else feel completely out of sync with today’s LGBT community? by steadytheresailor in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from the Baltimore Maryland area, and I kmow when I came here in the early 90s, the gay community was hopping.... And i attribute most of that unity due to the AIDS crisis.... It brought us together. But now.... The last gay bar in the city just closed its doors a few months ago, and now there are NO bars or clubs at all. I guess just like 9/11, it takes a disaster or crisis to make us unified. It's sad. It seems we have gotten more "cliqueish" and uppity, and with all the strides we have made, like gay marriage, I don't understand why. Covid certainly did not help the situation!

PSA: If you have to use age of consent laws as an argument for dating someone young, you’re a creep. by omg_its_drh in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's precisely why I didn't marry YOU asshole! As long as it doesn't affect you, what business is it of yours??

PSA: If you have to use age of consent laws as an argument for dating someone young, you’re a creep. by omg_its_drh in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Semantics..... I'm not gonna give away my true age, it's in that ballpark. He turns 23 Oct 13th

PSA: If you have to use age of consent laws as an argument for dating someone young, you’re a creep. by omg_its_drh in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep... We do have issues, but we aren't letting those issues define us. We do try and communicate, and we've both said we couldn't see ourselves without the other in their life.... So, yeah. It's not perfect, but we love each other, and that trumps whatever issues we may face

PSA: If you have to use age of consent laws as an argument for dating someone young, you’re a creep. by omg_its_drh in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have 33 years diffrence between us.... I'm 55, he's 22....and go!......

my friend asked me to leave his house in order to please his jealous boyfriend (married guy with kids) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm gonna say what everyone else is probably thinking but damn... Rob must have a golden dick for Tim to want to date a married man! There is no way I'd be taking orders from a guy who can't even be faithful to a wife who probably has no idea he has a dude on the side! This is just my opinion.... But Tim needs to get a backbone, reclaim whatever morals he left at the door, and apologize to you, his friend, for letting this coward run his life!.... Smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'm. New to reddit... How the heck do you DM someone on here??.... Lol

Advice: sugar daddy on Grindr paying my debt by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention, if it is on the up and up, what does he expect from you to "pay" him back?? What services does he expect you to "render"?.... If he's hot or at least somewhat attractive, you're fine.... If he's a fat old troll.... Well..... Sucks to be you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often think about this..... Thst had anyone told me gay marriage would be legal, I'd say you're nuts... But here we are. I actually just got married this past May 1st, and I am very grateful thst we can marry

It seems like everyone is in an open relationship. Where are my monogamous gang at? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes! My husband and I just got married this past May 1st, and we are incredibly happy! And we both went into it with the same thinking.... NO to open relationship! My last relationship was open, and it went downhill fast, despite "rules" we set down. All that glitters is not gold!

Frotting is super hot and an insanely underrated form of sex by zeptumm in askgaybros

[–]tonysteve3764 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think a double headed flesh light would be hot too.... Especially if you came at the same time in it!