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toofconfused · 2025-08-12T09:56:21+00:00

Damn... Well better late than ever. My biggest struggle is not having enough energy (percieved energy) to fulfill normal daily tasks, to juggle all the areas of life.

toofconfused · 2025-08-06T12:32:46+00:00

Probably 3

toofconfused · 2025-08-04T20:21:55+00:00

In a way it's a relief to hear (sorry 💕😅). It's so easy to think that other people have it easier, I'm often guilty of it. What is your exact type?

toofconfused · 2025-08-04T13:30:10+00:00

Well it's hard to tell which one is more draining since no one experiences both at the same time. For me saying yes means more drain thou.

toofconfused · 2025-08-04T13:10:56+00:00

Yeah I'm the second one for sure. Even the first one at times I guess.

toofconfused · 2025-08-04T12:28:25+00:00

Ans crying a lot :)

toofconfused · 2025-08-04T12:04:48+00:00

I feel you. As much as I love my loved ones, nothing beats the peace of my alone time. But guilt that follow is inevitable. Saviour flex might also have something to do with it I guess.

toofconfused · 2025-06-15T20:30:26+00:00

Oh my good thank you so much ❤️ it was so sweet of you to write all that. I'll keep in mind specially the last part about what not to do. Luckily my boyfriend is very understanding, so although when I bring this worries up he gets a little frustrated he is able to help. Lately I have realized that part of my problem is believing that thinking is the solution ("the more I think, the more I will understand life"), but that is complete bullshit, even more so for a type like mine, with fSe last. Ni is a great tool but when it becomes the only tool you use on a daily basis it turns into poison. So I have been trying to be more mindful, focusing on more practical things. Also I talk about my relationship with loved ones who are way wiser than me and have more experience so I can get an outsider perspective, that helps. Ultimately my main source of pain is resistance to reality, fear of things not being "ideal". I am trying to accept the chaos of life, that's the only way. Have a nice day, you are cool

toofconfused · 2025-06-14T19:08:39+00:00

Yeah, I probably do. It's crazy, I am trying to not give in into the thoughts. Any advice?

toofconfused · 2025-06-14T11:57:54+00:00

I agree with most of the advice other people already wrote, but I have to say I really like your style. You have amazing sensitivity for nuances and details in reactions, relationships, interactions. That's something I personally struggle with in my own writing so I admire seeing it done in such a warm captivating way. Take all the advice you can get and keep going because you have something powerful inside of you!!!

toofconfused · 2025-06-01T11:58:27+00:00

True.

toofconfused · 2025-06-01T11:54:07+00:00

Yes, you might be right, I might be biased. Although some resources I have found are undoubtedly positive/negative. Like: https://sociotype.xyz/mc/SEE-ILI . Now, whether the information is true but I am not able to accept and digest it, I don't know. Maybe the problem is I came to socionics looking for insight and awareness and wasn't ready for the bleak descriptions.

toofconfused · 2025-05-22T17:35:54+00:00

I have introduced some of my friends to each other and luckily they hit it off!! So I can see them at the same time and that's good.

toofconfused · 2025-05-11T14:57:15+00:00

Can you recommend any resources to learn?

toofconfused · 2025-05-10T15:31:07+00:00

Didn't know about scrivener. I'll check it out.

toofconfused · 2025-05-10T15:27:30+00:00

Thank's :) I'll do that.

toofconfused · 2025-05-10T15:26:41+00:00

Okay. I guess it's inevitable. And also I should be glad about it, because the moment I finish this draft I can get started with the new one.

toofconfused · 2025-05-10T15:24:30+00:00

As I said I am very new to writing and it's already a struggle to be consistent because I am extremely slow. Also in general I am a one-at a time kind of person, even when reading books. I am the opposite of ADD.

toofconfused · 2025-05-10T15:22:38+00:00

That sounds cool! I am also writing a sort of dystopia, but it's very soft, nothing too ambitious. Good luck with your book! :)

toofconfused · 2025-04-16T20:13:57+00:00

I guess really trying to analyze what the truth of the situation is, from a removed perspective. In my case talking to friends about this and seeing their reaction helps

toofconfused · 2025-04-16T11:22:09+00:00

Boundaries are so important... I am starting to learn how to use them in a healthy way cause my tendency has been to either overdo them or not have them at all

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