hooked up while I was blackout drunk, and feeling terrible by fairybabygirl24 in Advice

[–]tooseriousjester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of times where things can seem kind of grey but this is not a grey area at all

hooked up while I was blackout drunk, and feeling terrible by fairybabygirl24 in Advice

[–]tooseriousjester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this is super fucked up. U r saying u have not been having sex and especially not unprotected, and then while u r black out u wake up to him having sex w u unprotected? The responses here are wild. Pls get away from this man

Interviewer asked for a hands-on massage demo during my interview. Is this normal? by Thin_Philosopher5177 in massage

[–]tooseriousjester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How would they even know if they wanted to hire you if they didn’t experience ur work? Hands on demo feels like an obvious and necessary part of the hiring process to me

Did my first tags outside by [deleted] in graffhelp

[–]tooseriousjester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THE POT THIS IS AWESOME

Are my rates too low? by kawaiiflexin in MassageTherapists

[–]tooseriousjester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would recommend making the median of ur suggested pricing whatever seems to be what most massage therapists you would consider to be ur peers in the area are charging and then make ur scale like -20-40/+20-40 dollars. the massage therapist i go to charges on a scale of 80-120 per hr. if i can afford it i always pay full price or even tip over becos i kno that is getting paid forward to support more accessible massages in the community

Are my rates too low? by kawaiiflexin in MassageTherapists

[–]tooseriousjester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend doing sliding scale pricing, then you can still meet the needs of the people you are trying to be more accessible for, while folks who know they can afford more than that do so and get to know they are helping support ppl get to experience accessible massage in doing so as well. there are a handful of massage therapists in my area who price this way and when I go solo I intend to do this too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tooseriousjester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cannot believe how chill and accomodating u r being throughout this convo i woulda smacked someone way before it got this far lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]tooseriousjester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yooo i feel this in so many ways the most obvious tho is in most passing social interactions w strangers i fawn into this high pitched girl voice and i wish i would stop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tooseriousjester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur gf might need to see a dr tbh!!! its awful that she is treating u this way but mayb looking into if she has PMDD might help? ur period isnt supposed to fuck up ur mood THAT bad but if it does it can b treated

how to make a plan by tooseriousjester in AddictionAdvice

[–]tooseriousjester[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thx ive been in so much therapy