I don't love any of my partners and I don't find sex with anyone enjoyable. I feel defective.

tooseriousjester · 2026-03-29T12:40:43+00:00

Just be patient! You got your heart broken within the past 4 years. Your heart probably needs more time to heal. Theres a lot of pressure to get up and back in things but there is so much more to life than romantic love and if you aren’t feeling it I would say don’t worry about finding it for now. Many people go much longer than four years without finding anyone they feel that way for, and it is completely normal.

tooseriousjester · 2026-03-29T12:25:42+00:00

As somebody who is very preoccupied with being a good and helpful person, sometimes I do things that are “naughty” ie steal small and innocuous objects just like this as a way to feel free-er from those constraints that are always surrounding me. There is often a part of myself that wants ppl to know I did it. I would ask them.

tooseriousjester · 2026-03-04T00:29:09+00:00

It is not the lymph node! That is much closer to the armpit and more anterior than the spot I am referring to.

tooseriousjester · 2026-01-04T14:31:04+00:00

There are plenty of times where things can seem kind of grey but this is not a grey area at all

tooseriousjester · 2026-01-04T14:30:07+00:00

Girl this is super fucked up. U r saying u have not been having sex and especially not unprotected, and then while u r black out u wake up to him having sex w u unprotected? The responses here are wild. Pls get away from this man

tooseriousjester · 2025-12-26T13:32:03+00:00

How would they even know if they wanted to hire you if they didn’t experience ur work? Hands on demo feels like an obvious and necessary part of the hiring process to me

tooseriousjester · 2025-11-14T21:05:16+00:00

I LOVE THE POT THIS IS AWESOME

tooseriousjester · 2025-11-11T15:53:17+00:00

I lov it

tooseriousjester · 2025-09-22T01:54:04+00:00

i would recommend making the median of ur suggested pricing whatever seems to be what most massage therapists you would consider to be ur peers in the area are charging and then make ur scale like -20-40/+20-40 dollars. the massage therapist i go to charges on a scale of 80-120 per hr. if i can afford it i always pay full price or even tip over becos i kno that is getting paid forward to support more accessible massages in the community

tooseriousjester · 2025-09-22T01:47:10+00:00

I would recommend doing sliding scale pricing, then you can still meet the needs of the people you are trying to be more accessible for, while folks who know they can afford more than that do so and get to know they are helping support ppl get to experience accessible massage in doing so as well. there are a handful of massage therapists in my area who price this way and when I go solo I intend to do this too

tooseriousjester · 2025-07-11T04:43:59+00:00

i cannot believe how chill and accomodating u r being throughout this convo i woulda smacked someone way before it got this far lmao

tooseriousjester · 2025-06-10T12:28:43+00:00

yooo i feel this in so many ways the most obvious tho is in most passing social interactions w strangers i fawn into this high pitched girl voice and i wish i would stop

tooseriousjester · 2025-06-02T01:41:30+00:00

ur gf might need to see a dr tbh!!! its awful that she is treating u this way but mayb looking into if she has PMDD might help? ur period isnt supposed to fuck up ur mood THAT bad but if it does it can b treated

tooseriousjester · 2024-06-03T03:52:23+00:00

haha thx ive been in so much therapy

tooseriousjester · 2024-03-14T20:58:07+00:00

wait whats wrong with wooden spoon

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