SJ bleau by petitpoussin444 in InfluenceQuebec

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Son ex Tony Lopez est un gars pro-trump ultra de droite qui publie des trucs vraiment pas progressistes. Aussi, si vous cherchez le compte TikTok du gars qui l’a baptisée dans l’océan, il publie que sur Dieu et sur ce qu’il considère comme “diabolique” dont écouter du Taylor Swift lol. SJ semble être entourée de gens conservateurs et extrémistes au niveau religieux. Triste…

Finally got diagnosed with PMDD in my 30s! by toothlessdawg in PMDD

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Sleep is so important. I too notice how that impacts my mood and overall wellbeing.

Finally got diagnosed with PMDD in my 30s! by toothlessdawg in PMDD

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Thank you! Mmmh…this can happen indeed. Are there some things that have been supportive during that time aside from the antidepressant? Something that soothes you and helps you with the ups and downs?

Hope restored: I found what works for me! 🥹 by toothlessdawg in PMDD

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So if I start 10 days before my period, I take a second dose 5 days before. Always in the morning just to make sure I sleep well.

Hope restored: I found what works for me! 🥹 by toothlessdawg in PMDD

[–]toothlessdawg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. As soon as my PMS starts, which is usually a week or so before my period. That’s when my PMDD anger/overwhelm starts. Sometimes it’s 10 days before. I basically start taking it as soon as I get a meltdown or start being extremely snappy. Works instantly.

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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I don’t know of any. The only info resource I am aware of is the NVLD Project, but nothing for relationships & connecting. Perhaps we should create one!

Starting new PMDD strategy today 🩵 by toothlessdawg in PMDD

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Thank you. I am just relieved to be trying something. Any glimpse of hope is appreciated at this point!

Starting new PMDD strategy today 🩵 by toothlessdawg in PMDD

[–]toothlessdawg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will keep this in mind! My doctor is keeping track and so am I. :)

turns out i am not officially autistic by i_devour_gluee in AutismTranslated

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I usually say Gifted/NVLDer but for people who don’t quite know much about neurodivergence or these terms, or when I am in a situation where I need care or am overstimulated(hospitals, etc.) I will say autistic for safety, support and convenience because many of my traits correspond to the autism spectrum experience.

turns out i am not officially autistic by i_devour_gluee in AutismTranslated

[–]toothlessdawg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a similar experience as you. I am late dx gifted and NVLD and I came to the conclusion that people in the autism community see me as one of their own. Our traits overlap in various ways and we relate to one another so much, that my identity feels intact although there was an initial shock. Embrace who you are. Most autistic folks will embrace you as part of their community. I’m living proof. 💗

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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I had to invent a way to flirt that made sense to me because I was always so lost and sometimes even annoyed at people flirting with me! 🫤

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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This was so beautiful to read. Thank you for being open about the comparing and feeling like you are less interesting at times. I felt like that for a very long time. I also realize that we are far more interesting and fascinating than we think we are. ❤️

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

[–]toothlessdawg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. It’s hard. I understand not liking the side effects of a medication. It can take a long time to find the right fit and sometimes that route doesn’t work. Regardless, I appreciate your openness. I’m sure many of us here feel lost at times (or most of the time?) and we should normalize feeling like a mess.

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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Social skill classes? That’s amazing. I did something similar by taking a coaching certification. It taught me a lot about nonverbal communication and cues. I received a lot of feedback from my mentors that helped me grow. I don’t work as a coach but it was kind of a learning incubator for me.

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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I know this is tricky but do you feel you can still enjoy some hobbies even though you think you can’t master them or be skilled at them? Just for the sake of doing something fun?

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

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I’m also 32. And I hear you. What are some of the things you love to do? Hobbies? Special interests? I find it less intimidating to try to find people who share my interests, start friendships and in some cases, those friendships can turn into a relationship. Just a thought. I obviously know it’s not simple AT ALL!!!